GCM_Sticky
07-04-2007, 01:40 AM
Please share your favorite gentle/positive discipline book. Also, feel free to post a review of any of the books listed below. :-) Thank you to everyone who has contributed to this list. :heart
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Bailey, Becky - Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FEasy-Love-Difficult-Discipline-Cooperation%2Fdp%2F0060007753%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbo oks%26qid%3D1183534198%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22 (See past discussions (http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/community/showthread.php?t=438058)about this book.)
Budd, Linda - Living With the Active Alert Child: Groundbreaking Strategies for Parents (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FLiving-Active-Alert-Child-Groundbreaking%2Fdp%2F1884734774%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3 Dbooks%26qid%3D1183534806%26sr%3D1-2&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Chou, Grace P. - Disciplining Children with Confidence (http://www.amazon.com/Disciplining-Children-Confidence-Grace-Chou/dp/1553061284/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594393&sr=1-1)
Clark, Jean Illsley - Self-Esteem: A Family Affair (http://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Family-Jean-Illsley-Clarke/dp/1568382871/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595779&sr=1-1) and Time-In: When Time-Out Doesn't Work (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FTime-When-Time-Out-Doesnt-Work%2Fdp%2F1884734286%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26q id%3D1183534969%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Clarkson, Clay - Heartfelt Discipline: The Gentle Art of Training and Guiding Your Child (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHeartfelt-Discipline-Gentle-Training-Guiding%2Fdp%2F1578565839%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks% 26qid%3D1183535599%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Clarkson, Sally - The Ministry of Motherhood: Following Christ's Example in Reaching the Hearts of Our Children (http://www.amazon.com/Ministry-Motherhood-Following-Reaching-Children/dp/1578565820/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_b/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183594229&sr=1-2)
Cohen, Lawerence - Playful Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FPlayful-Parenting-Lawrence-J-Cohen%2Fdp%2F0345442865%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26 qid%3D1183535745%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Colorosa, Barbara - Kids Are Worth It (http://www.amazon.com/kids-are-worth-Revised-Harperresource/dp/0060014318/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594623&sr=1-1)
Crary, Elizabeth - Dealing With Disappointment (http://www.amazon.com/Dealing-Disappointment-Helping-Things-Their/dp/1884734758/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596394&sr=1-1)
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Faber, Adele and Elaine Mazlich -How To Talk So Your Kids Will Listen and Listen So Your Kids Will Talk (http://www.amazon.com/Talk-Kids-Will-Listen-Child/dp/1853407054/ref=pd_bbs_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594623&sr=1-2) and Sliblings Without Rivalry (http://www.amazon.com/Siblings-Without-Rivalry-Children-Together/dp/0380799006/ref=pd_sim_b_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183594623&sr=1-2)
Flower, Hillary - Adventures in Gentle Discipline (http://www.amazon.com/ADVENTURES-GENTLE-DISCIPLINE-Parent-Parent/dp/0976896907/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594819&sr=1-1)
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Gordon, Thomas - Parent Effectiveness Training: The Proven Program for Raising Responsible Children (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0609806939?ie=UTF8&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0609806939)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=as2&o=1&a=0609806939%22%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%2 0border=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:non e%20%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;
Kimmel, Tim - Grace-Based Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/Grace-Based-Parenting-Tim-Kimmel/dp/0849905486/ref=pd_bxgy_b_text_b/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183593933&sr=1-1)
Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy - Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles (http://www.amazon.com/Kids-Parents-Power-Struggles-Lifetime/dp/0060930438/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594901&sr=1-1) and Raising Your Spirited Child (http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Your-Spirited-Child-Rev/dp/0060739665/ref=pd_sim_b_3/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183594901&sr=1-1)
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Lutton, Crystal - Biblical Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/193058668X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=as2&camp=217145&creative=399369&creativeASIN=193058668X%22)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=as2&o=1&a=193058668X&camp=217145&creative=399369 and Grace-Based Living (http://aolff.com/?page_id=87).
McKay, Matthew - When Anger Hurts Your Kids (http://www.amazon.com/When-Anger-Hurts-Your-Kids/dp/156731208X/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595422&sr=1-1)
Nelsen, Jane - all Positive Discipline (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-url/104-8594005-9741551?%5Fencoding=UTF8&search-type=ss&index=books&field-author=Jane%20Ed.D.%20Nelsen) books (note: the ones for younger children are not AP), and Jodi's fav Positive Discipline A to Z (http://www.amazon.com/o/ASIN/0307345572/ref=s9_asin_title_1-1966_g1/104-8594005-9741551?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=center-1&pf_rd_r=0V4Z92D0B3ZTJ5225D1Z&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=278240701&pf_rd_i=507846)
Neufeld, Gordon and Gabor Mate - Hold On To Your Kids (http://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595540&sr=1-1) - jujubnme says, "He talks about parent-orientation vs. peer-orientation. Very insightful, and good information on parenting from connection. Although it applies for all ages, it's an excellent resource for parents of school-aged kids."
Pantley, Elizabeth - Kid Cooperation: How to Stop Yelling, Nagging & Pleading and Get Kids to Cooperate (http://www.amazon.com/Kid-Cooperation-Yelling-Pleading-Cooperate/dp/1572240407/ref=pd_sim_b_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183595047&sr=1-1) - kauaidee says, "She does recommend time outs but I found overall her discipline style very gentle. It is one of the most practical books I've read which is what I need right now. I feel like I've got the concept of GBD down but I need ideas and this one gave me lots. Plus she also had a chapter on dealing with anger as a parent which is something I struggle with."; The No-Cry Discipline Solution (http://www.amazon.com/No-Cry-Discipline-Solution-Encourage-Behavior/dp/0071471596/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595047&sr=1-1); and Perfect Parenting: The Dictionary of 1,000 Parenting Tips (http://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Parenting-Elizabeth-Pantley/dp/0809228475/ref=pd_bxgy_b_text_b/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183595047&sr=1-1)
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Sears, William - The Discipline Book (http://www.amazon.com/Discipline-Book-Better-Behaved-Child-Birth/dp/0316779032/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596496&sr=1-1) and The Successful Child (http://www.amazon.com/Successful-Child-Parents-Parenting-Library/dp/B000KJTOT4/ref=pd_sim_b_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183596496&sr=1-1)
Tobias, Cynthia Ulrich - You Can’t Make Me But I Can Be Persuaded (http://www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Make-Persuaded-Strong-Willed/dp/1578561930/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596746&sr=1-1)
Turansky, Scott and Joanne Miller - Say Goodbye to Whining, Complaining and Bad Attitudes...in You and Your Kids (http://www.amazon.com/Goodbye-Whining-Complaining-Attitudes-Your/dp/0877883548/ref=sr_1_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596638&sr=1-2)
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Whitehurst, Teresa - Jesus on Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Parenting-Essential-Principles-Transform/dp/0801065291/ref=sr_1_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594229&sr=1-2)
Wyckoff, Jerry and Barbara C. Unell - Discipline Without Shouting or Spanking (http://www.amazon.com/Discipline-Without-Shouting-Spanking-Practical/dp/0743228545/ref=pd_bbs_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596219&sr=1-2)
Not discipline but awesome for every parent:
DeBecker, Gavin - Protecting the Gift (http://www.amazon.com/Protecting-Gift-Keeping-Children-Teenagers/dp/0440509009/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596922&sr=1-1)
Cloud, Henry and John Townsend - Boundaries (http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Inspirio-Zondervan-Miniature-Editions/dp/0762421029/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596847&sr=1-1) - cornflower says, "I've heard that Boundaries with Kids is punitive, though, so perhaps stay away from it."
VanVonderen, Jeff - Families Where Grace is in Place (http://www.amazon.com/Families-Where-Grace-Place-VanVonderen/dp/1556612664/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596114&sr=1-1)
For kids:
Bang, Molly - When Sophie Gets Angry--Really, Really Angry... (http://www.amazon.com/When-Sophie-Angry-Really-Really-Angry/dp/0439924936/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183597153&sr=1-1)
Fox, Mem - Harriet You'll Drive Me Wild! (http://www.amazon.com/Harriet-Youll-Drive-Me-Wild/dp/0152045988/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183597332&sr=1-1) - ShangriLewis says, "It's about a mom who yells after having a lot of patience with a normal little girl, and then they have a big pillow fight. I'm not sure if everyone would like that or not. But, it was good for us because yelling is my downfall. I read that one and the Molly Bang one everynight for Porter for almost 2 years. He loved those books and they were good for me, too."
Joose, Barbara M. - Mama, Do You Love Me? (http://www.amazon.com/Mama-Do-You-Love-Me/dp/9993621242/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183597253&sr=1-1) - jujubnme says, "A little Native Alaskan girl asks her mother if she loves her and quizzes her about a bunch of 'what if' situations--one of my favorites: 'What if I put salmon in your parka, ermine in your mittens and lemmings in your mukluks?' The mother answers 'I would be angry [or surprised, worried, etc. in other scenarios]. But still I would love you.' It's very sweet and Julius liked all the arctic animals."
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Bailey, Becky - Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FEasy-Love-Difficult-Discipline-Cooperation%2Fdp%2F0060007753%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbo oks%26qid%3D1183534198%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22 (See past discussions (http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/community/showthread.php?t=438058)about this book.)
Budd, Linda - Living With the Active Alert Child: Groundbreaking Strategies for Parents (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FLiving-Active-Alert-Child-Groundbreaking%2Fdp%2F1884734774%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3 Dbooks%26qid%3D1183534806%26sr%3D1-2&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Chou, Grace P. - Disciplining Children with Confidence (http://www.amazon.com/Disciplining-Children-Confidence-Grace-Chou/dp/1553061284/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594393&sr=1-1)
Clark, Jean Illsley - Self-Esteem: A Family Affair (http://www.amazon.com/Self-Esteem-Family-Jean-Illsley-Clarke/dp/1568382871/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595779&sr=1-1) and Time-In: When Time-Out Doesn't Work (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FTime-When-Time-Out-Doesnt-Work%2Fdp%2F1884734286%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26q id%3D1183534969%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Clarkson, Clay - Heartfelt Discipline: The Gentle Art of Training and Guiding Your Child (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHeartfelt-Discipline-Gentle-Training-Guiding%2Fdp%2F1578565839%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks% 26qid%3D1183535599%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Clarkson, Sally - The Ministry of Motherhood: Following Christ's Example in Reaching the Hearts of Our Children (http://www.amazon.com/Ministry-Motherhood-Following-Reaching-Children/dp/1578565820/ref=pd_bxgy_b_img_b/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183594229&sr=1-2)
Cohen, Lawerence - Playful Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FPlayful-Parenting-Lawrence-J-Cohen%2Fdp%2F0345442865%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26 qid%3D1183535745%26sr%3D1-1&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=ur2&camp=1789&creative=9325)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=ur2&o=1%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%20bo rder=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:none%2 0%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;%22
Colorosa, Barbara - Kids Are Worth It (http://www.amazon.com/kids-are-worth-Revised-Harperresource/dp/0060014318/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594623&sr=1-1)
Crary, Elizabeth - Dealing With Disappointment (http://www.amazon.com/Dealing-Disappointment-Helping-Things-Their/dp/1884734758/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596394&sr=1-1)
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Faber, Adele and Elaine Mazlich -How To Talk So Your Kids Will Listen and Listen So Your Kids Will Talk (http://www.amazon.com/Talk-Kids-Will-Listen-Child/dp/1853407054/ref=pd_bbs_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594623&sr=1-2) and Sliblings Without Rivalry (http://www.amazon.com/Siblings-Without-Rivalry-Children-Together/dp/0380799006/ref=pd_sim_b_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183594623&sr=1-2)
Flower, Hillary - Adventures in Gentle Discipline (http://www.amazon.com/ADVENTURES-GENTLE-DISCIPLINE-Parent-Parent/dp/0976896907/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594819&sr=1-1)
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Gordon, Thomas - Parent Effectiveness Training: The Proven Program for Raising Responsible Children (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0609806939?ie=UTF8&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0609806939)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=as2&o=1&a=0609806939%22%20width=%221%22%20height=%221%22%2 0border=%220%22%20alt=%22%22%20style=%22border:non e%20%21important;%20margin:0px%20%21important;
Kimmel, Tim - Grace-Based Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/Grace-Based-Parenting-Tim-Kimmel/dp/0849905486/ref=pd_bxgy_b_text_b/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183593933&sr=1-1)
Kurcinka, Mary Sheedy - Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles (http://www.amazon.com/Kids-Parents-Power-Struggles-Lifetime/dp/0060930438/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594901&sr=1-1) and Raising Your Spirited Child (http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Your-Spirited-Child-Rev/dp/0060739665/ref=pd_sim_b_3/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183594901&sr=1-1)
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Lutton, Crystal - Biblical Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/193058668X/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=gentlechristi-20&linkCode=as2&camp=217145&creative=399369&creativeASIN=193058668X%22)http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=gentlechristi-20&l=as2&o=1&a=193058668X&camp=217145&creative=399369 and Grace-Based Living (http://aolff.com/?page_id=87).
McKay, Matthew - When Anger Hurts Your Kids (http://www.amazon.com/When-Anger-Hurts-Your-Kids/dp/156731208X/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595422&sr=1-1)
Nelsen, Jane - all Positive Discipline (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-url/104-8594005-9741551?%5Fencoding=UTF8&search-type=ss&index=books&field-author=Jane%20Ed.D.%20Nelsen) books (note: the ones for younger children are not AP), and Jodi's fav Positive Discipline A to Z (http://www.amazon.com/o/ASIN/0307345572/ref=s9_asin_title_1-1966_g1/104-8594005-9741551?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=center-1&pf_rd_r=0V4Z92D0B3ZTJ5225D1Z&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=278240701&pf_rd_i=507846)
Neufeld, Gordon and Gabor Mate - Hold On To Your Kids (http://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595540&sr=1-1) - jujubnme says, "He talks about parent-orientation vs. peer-orientation. Very insightful, and good information on parenting from connection. Although it applies for all ages, it's an excellent resource for parents of school-aged kids."
Pantley, Elizabeth - Kid Cooperation: How to Stop Yelling, Nagging & Pleading and Get Kids to Cooperate (http://www.amazon.com/Kid-Cooperation-Yelling-Pleading-Cooperate/dp/1572240407/ref=pd_sim_b_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183595047&sr=1-1) - kauaidee says, "She does recommend time outs but I found overall her discipline style very gentle. It is one of the most practical books I've read which is what I need right now. I feel like I've got the concept of GBD down but I need ideas and this one gave me lots. Plus she also had a chapter on dealing with anger as a parent which is something I struggle with."; The No-Cry Discipline Solution (http://www.amazon.com/No-Cry-Discipline-Solution-Encourage-Behavior/dp/0071471596/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183595047&sr=1-1); and Perfect Parenting: The Dictionary of 1,000 Parenting Tips (http://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Parenting-Elizabeth-Pantley/dp/0809228475/ref=pd_bxgy_b_text_b/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183595047&sr=1-1)
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Sears, William - The Discipline Book (http://www.amazon.com/Discipline-Book-Better-Behaved-Child-Birth/dp/0316779032/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596496&sr=1-1) and The Successful Child (http://www.amazon.com/Successful-Child-Parents-Parenting-Library/dp/B000KJTOT4/ref=pd_sim_b_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&qid=1183596496&sr=1-1)
Tobias, Cynthia Ulrich - You Can’t Make Me But I Can Be Persuaded (http://www.amazon.com/You-Cant-Make-Persuaded-Strong-Willed/dp/1578561930/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596746&sr=1-1)
Turansky, Scott and Joanne Miller - Say Goodbye to Whining, Complaining and Bad Attitudes...in You and Your Kids (http://www.amazon.com/Goodbye-Whining-Complaining-Attitudes-Your/dp/0877883548/ref=sr_1_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596638&sr=1-2)
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Whitehurst, Teresa - Jesus on Parenting (http://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Parenting-Essential-Principles-Transform/dp/0801065291/ref=sr_1_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183594229&sr=1-2)
Wyckoff, Jerry and Barbara C. Unell - Discipline Without Shouting or Spanking (http://www.amazon.com/Discipline-Without-Shouting-Spanking-Practical/dp/0743228545/ref=pd_bbs_2/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596219&sr=1-2)
Not discipline but awesome for every parent:
DeBecker, Gavin - Protecting the Gift (http://www.amazon.com/Protecting-Gift-Keeping-Children-Teenagers/dp/0440509009/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596922&sr=1-1)
Cloud, Henry and John Townsend - Boundaries (http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Inspirio-Zondervan-Miniature-Editions/dp/0762421029/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596847&sr=1-1) - cornflower says, "I've heard that Boundaries with Kids is punitive, though, so perhaps stay away from it."
VanVonderen, Jeff - Families Where Grace is in Place (http://www.amazon.com/Families-Where-Grace-Place-VanVonderen/dp/1556612664/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183596114&sr=1-1)
For kids:
Bang, Molly - When Sophie Gets Angry--Really, Really Angry... (http://www.amazon.com/When-Sophie-Angry-Really-Really-Angry/dp/0439924936/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183597153&sr=1-1)
Fox, Mem - Harriet You'll Drive Me Wild! (http://www.amazon.com/Harriet-Youll-Drive-Me-Wild/dp/0152045988/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183597332&sr=1-1) - ShangriLewis says, "It's about a mom who yells after having a lot of patience with a normal little girl, and then they have a big pillow fight. I'm not sure if everyone would like that or not. But, it was good for us because yelling is my downfall. I read that one and the Molly Bang one everynight for Porter for almost 2 years. He loved those books and they were good for me, too."
Joose, Barbara M. - Mama, Do You Love Me? (http://www.amazon.com/Mama-Do-You-Love-Me/dp/9993621242/ref=sr_1_1/104-8594005-9741551?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183597253&sr=1-1) - jujubnme says, "A little Native Alaskan girl asks her mother if she loves her and quizzes her about a bunch of 'what if' situations--one of my favorites: 'What if I put salmon in your parka, ermine in your mittens and lemmings in your mukluks?' The mother answers 'I would be angry [or surprised, worried, etc. in other scenarios]. But still I would love you.' It's very sweet and Julius liked all the arctic animals."