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08-31-2007, 04:29 AM | #1 |
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If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
what would it be?
Crystal is in the middle of compiling some age-specific answers for Grace-Based Discipline, and needs some good questions So, ask her whatever you'd like! Please note: By asking questions in this thread, you are permitting Crystal/AOLFF to utilize these questions and her answers for publication, either in her website or in forthcoming books. No names or other identifying information of yours will be used. Come on, try to stump her |
08-31-2007, 04:59 AM | #2 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
How do I help my kids to stop complaining every time I ask them to do something??? It's driving me crazy!
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08-31-2007, 05:15 AM | #3 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
This probably won't help the website, but I really want to know what is the difference between Biblical Parenting (the book) and Grace... something about Family (the new book) ?
I'd like to see more on two and three year olds What about Bossy three year olds? It isn't any fun to play with them because they are so bossy "sit there.... play with this...." hmmm I can't think of anything really good though, things are well here .... weird how my mind is blank during these times
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08-31-2007, 05:37 AM | #4 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
How do you 'help' your kids do something (like cleaning up spilt juice or whatever) if they run away screaming when you try to help them. Or fight back.
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08-31-2007, 08:15 AM | #5 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
What about the 10yo who says "I won't do it and you can't make me" and doesn't care one whit if it means that he has zero privilidges.
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08-31-2007, 08:23 AM | #6 | |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
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08-31-2007, 08:39 AM | #7 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
What do I do to help my 2 year old stop hitting/pinching/pulling my 6 year old's hair?
How do I help my undirectable, unconsolable 2 year old when he is upset? I could easily tell my first, "this is not a toy, play with x" Or, 'sand stays in the sandbox, here, put the sand in this." My 2 year old is dead-set on doing what he wants to do, no matter what. No redirection works. He gets "stuck' in what he wants to do. Comfort corner does not work. Hugging him doesn't help. Deep breathing with him doesn't work. It seems like I have to stand on the side, reflect feelings, and let him scream until he's calm. Is there anything ELSE I can do? I hate leaving him to cry. (so,, was that looong enough for you )
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08-31-2007, 08:45 AM | #8 | ||
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08-31-2007, 08:48 AM | #9 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
How do I help my 33 month old direct his frustration and anger in a better way? RE: stop hitting his sister; stop hitting momma and daddy
How do I teach my son that football tackling our friends is not good play for everyone? How do you get Crystal to come live with you and teach you everything that she knows?
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08-31-2007, 08:54 AM | #10 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
Okay I have one. Piglet is very oppositional and we know it's a part of her issues. What do I do if she does refuse to do what she's told (brush her teeth, etc) and I know it's defiance..something that doesn't involve punishment?
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08-31-2007, 08:54 AM | #11 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
How to "make it happen" with older children? How to "redeem the time" when starting GBD 'late' (as in, the children are older)? How to get over the effects of 'bad parenting' the early years? How to assume authority, when you feel you have none?
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08-31-2007, 09:28 AM | #12 | ||
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08-31-2007, 09:40 AM | #13 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
How do you give firm limits to an exceptionally independent, capable 36mo who wants to do everything adults (mowing, using the stove, bathing her babies, checking the mail, sewing) do without totally crushing her independent spirit? (I'm talking about a truly spirited child with a very strong personality...no gate is too high, and no natural consequence seems as strong as her desire to participate independently in the adult world...it's truly do or die!)
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08-31-2007, 12:26 PM | #14 |
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Re: If you could ask Crystal any question you wanted to....
What do you do when your 12 year old is screaming because he's having a panic attack, but the noise gives your 15 year old a panic attack and everything goes downhill from there? Or even more generally, what do you do when one child's acting up feeds another child and the room turns into a circus? They're all really good on their own or in pairs of 12/15 or 10/15, but put the younger two together and it's just fighting fighting fighting. And it's even worse when all three are together.
How do you deal with the 9-12 year old girl's attitude? What do you do when everything you say to your 10yo daughter is percieved as critical? |
08-31-2007, 03:19 PM | #15 | |
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