when toddler jumps on the baby...

illinoismommy · 05-12-2007, 08:53 AM

This of course makes me angry and I tell him "don't jump on her, that hurts her" she starts crying.... then I pick her up and cuddle her and don't give D any extra attention for it.... is this a good idea or a bad idea?

(besides not putting her on the floor unguarded

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Linnis · 05-12-2007, 09:31 AM

I heard from another mom, that she calls her bouncy seat the 'safe seat' and when the baby is in there he or she can't be touched. Off limits kind of deal.

Not giving him any special or extra attention sounds like a game plan.

Aisling · 05-12-2007, 09:53 AM

Sounds good to me! It communicates healthy concern for the baby's safety and keeps the focus on the hurt party.

apmommy · 05-12-2007, 02:34 PM

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illinoismommy · 05-12-2007, 02:37 PM

Shes off limits when napping in the crib -- enforcing a no touch in bouncy would be more work than its worth especially since she likes it, she grins at him

05-12-2007, 08:53 AM	#1
illinoismommy Rose Garden Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 25,657	when toddler jumps on the baby... This of course makes me angry and I tell him "don't jump on her, that hurts her" she starts crying.... then I pick her up and cuddle her and don't give D any extra attention for it.... is this a good idea or a bad idea? (besides not putting her on the floor unguarded ) __________________ Mommy to: Ds (9.5), Dd (7), Ds2 (6), and Ds3 (4.5).

05-12-2007, 09:31 AM	#2
Linnis Deactivated Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 5,404	Re: when toddler jumps on the baby... I heard from another mom, that she calls her bouncy seat the 'safe seat' and when the baby is in there he or she can't be touched. Off limits kind of deal. Not giving him any special or extra attention sounds like a game plan.

05-12-2007, 09:53 AM	#3
Aisling Deactivated Even artichokes have hearts! Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 33,230	Re: when toddler jumps on the baby... Sounds good to me! It communicates healthy concern for the baby's safety and keeps the focus on the hurt party.

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apmommy Rose Garden Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 5,976	Re: when toddler jumps on the baby... . __________________ One Fabulous Mama Last edited by apmommy; 09-11-2011 at 10:19 AM.

05-12-2007, 02:37 PM	#5
illinoismommy Rose Garden Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 25,657	Re: when toddler jumps on the baby... Shes off limits when napping in the crib -- enforcing a no touch in bouncy would be more work than its worth especially since she likes it, she grins at him __________________ Mommy to: Ds (9.5), Dd (7), Ds2 (6), and Ds3 (4.5).

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