Gentle Christian Mothers Community
 
Random Quotes from Wise Mamas

~* Please help keep GCM free by using our
Amazon.com affiliate link. Thank you! *~


Go Back   Gentle Christian Mothers Community > Specific Issues > Unprepared for Parenting (Ezzos, Pearls, Etc.) *Public*
Forgot Password? Join Us!

Unprepared for Parenting (Ezzos, Pearls, Etc.) *Public* Support and information for those affected by the Ezzos, the Pearls, and other punitive and adversarial methods of child-rearing.
A public forum.
Before posting here, please read this sticky and keep guideline 23 in mind:

23. No posts harshly dissecting parenting moments of others since we desire to humbly cultivate a heart attitude of grace and not judgment towards other mamas. We all struggle at times as parents and have much to learn, and GCM's focus is to provide tools and information for each of us to parent more effectively. Posts voicing some frustration regarding choices made by others can be okay, but it needs to be within the overall context of seeking understanding or ideas for better responses in the future.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 04-12-2005, 10:07 AM   #1
grandmama
Guest
 
 
Posts: n/a
Default Clay and Sally Clarkson

I just picked up some books by these authors because they came highly recommended by some folks here. Has anyone else read them and are you interested in discussing them?
  Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2005, 10:25 AM   #2
Leslie
Rose Garden
 
Genteel Princess Mollie
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 6,203
Leslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond reputeLeslie has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

I'm almost finished with The Mission of Motherhood and getting ready to read the fathering one.

(I got the name of the book wrong the first time!)
Leslie is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2005, 11:17 AM   #3
katiekind
Deactivated
I support GCM!
 
Peace be with you.
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: the sweet sunny south
Posts: 15,346
katiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond reputekatiekind has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

I have Heartfelt Discipline and The Mission of Motherhood on my bookshelf. I've given them a good look-over (not a thorough reading, unfortunately.) I think they have a lot of really good things to say, and what excites me is that -the Clarksons speak the language of those in the conservative homeschooling Christian circles that often find their way to Ezzo, Pearl, Fugate. Hopefully the Clarksons are earning a hearing with many.
katiekind is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2005, 10:00 PM   #4
tree_hugger
Guest
 
 
Posts: n/a
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

I have The Mission of Motherhood and I constantly re-read and refer to it. I find it so inspiring, it is an aweseome book.

I understand the Clarksons *used* to be punitive and spank their children, but has some kind revelation and converted to GBD.

Here is a quote from the Amazon description of Heartfelt Discipline by Clay Clarkson.

Quote:
At last, here is a faith-directed approach to discipline that spares the rod but doesn’t spoil the children. Through biblical advice, answers to commonly asked questions, and positive encouragement, Clay Clarkson presents a new, biblical model of discipline–one that allows parents to embrace a completely new way of thinking about childhood discipline, renew their relationships with their children, and transform the dynamics of their family life.
I haven't read it yet, but I would like to. I'd also like to read The Ministry of Motherhood, by Sally.
  Reply With Quote
Old 04-19-2005, 05:40 PM   #5
chelsea
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 7,373
chelsea is a glorious beacon of lightchelsea is a glorious beacon of lightchelsea is a glorious beacon of lightchelsea is a glorious beacon of lightchelsea is a glorious beacon of lightchelsea is a glorious beacon of light
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

I bought "Heartfelt Discipline" on the weekend and will read it as soon as I'm done reading "Jesus on Parenting" by Teresa Whitehurst. I can't wait, as I have never read Christian non-punitive books before and I am greatly anticipating them!!
__________________
"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I will praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
chelsea is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-26-2005, 12:16 PM   #6
LoveToReadMommy
Guest
 
 
Posts: n/a
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

"Heartfelt Discipline" is the book that started me on the journey from being a punative/spanker tripp/ezzo follower to GBD and you all!!!! One night, after another screaming frustrating event with oldest dd, I went to the Christian bookstore and bought 5 parenting books. I started reading his, and couldn't put it down. It changed our life. Then I was doing an internet search and found GCM!

Mission of Motherhood is an amazing book, I give it to all first time mom's.

I love the Clarksons, all the posts have summed it up really well. I feel like they have done more to mentor me than anyone IRL. (I should give credit to Crystal too from here)

  Reply With Quote
Old 04-26-2005, 01:39 PM   #7
mama2mychildren
Deactivated
 
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Posts: 233
mama2mychildren is on a distinguished road
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

Love, love, love "Mission of Motherhood". It sounds cheesy but it completely changed me and my response to motherhood. I would love to discuss it. I'm also planning on picking up "The Ministry of Motherhood" but not sure how it differs from Mission...
mama2mychildren is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-28-2005, 11:39 AM   #8
LoveToReadMommy
Guest
 
 
Posts: n/a
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

I have Ministry too, but haven't read it yet, because I want to re-read Mission. But I've been doing a lot of reading in the GBD area, so I probably won't get to Ministry soon. Maybe we could do an on line group thing with it sometime. We're doing that in the Gentle Discipline forum now with "Easy to Love Difficult To Discipline". It's neat.
  Reply With Quote
Old 04-30-2005, 05:48 AM   #9
tree_hugger
Guest
 
 
Posts: n/a
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

Quote:
Originally Posted by LoveToReadMommy
Mission of Motherhood is an amazing book, I give it to all first time mom's.
Me too!
  Reply With Quote
Old 04-30-2005, 02:46 PM   #10
Singingmom
Administrator
 
Oh, sing to the Lord a new song!
 
Join Date: Apr 2005
Posts: 25,959
Singingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond reputeSingingmom has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: Clay and Sally Clarkson

Educating the Wholehearted Child is a really good book for homeschoolers to read.
__________________
Kelly
Wife to my sweetheart for 30 years
Grateful mom to 3 young adults

Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13
Singingmom is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 03:57 AM.


A variety of opinions and ideas are shared on GCM. Personal experiences, suggestions, and tips found here are in no way intended to substitute for medical counsel from a healthcare professional. Always use your own good judgement and seek professional advice when in doubt about a health concern.

Amazon.com affiliate link

Copyright 1997-2017 by Gentle Christian Mothers™
An alternative-minded, evangelical Christian community supporting attachment parenting and natural living.

Do not post content elsewhere.
http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/community/

Some smilies created and copyrighted by Mazeguy.
Some smilies and avatars created and copyrighted by flowermama and children -- do not use elsewhere.

Soli Deo Gloria
To God only wise, be glory through Jesus Christ for ever. Amen. ~ Romans 16:27 (KJV)

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

X vBulletin 3.8.3 Debug Information
  • Page Generation 0.08197 seconds
  • Memory Usage 7,746KB
  • Queries Executed 13 (?)
More Information
Template Usage:
  • (1)SHOWTHREAD
  • (1)ad_footer_end
  • (1)ad_footer_start
  • (1)ad_header_end
  • (1)ad_header_logo
  • (1)ad_navbar_below
  • (1)ad_showthread_beforeqr
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost_sig
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost_start
  • (2)bbcode_quote
  • (1)cyb_flashimagebanners
  • (1)footer
  • (1)forumjump
  • (1)forumrules
  • (1)gobutton
  • (1)header
  • (1)headinclude
  • (1)navbar
  • (3)navbar_link
  • (60)option
  • (10)post_groan_box
  • (1)post_groan_javascript
  • (1)post_groan_navbar_search
  • (10)post_thanks_box
  • (1)post_thanks_javascript
  • (1)post_thanks_navbar_search
  • (10)postbit_legacy
  • (5)postbit_onlinestatus
  • (40)postbit_reputation
  • (10)postbit_wrapper
  • (4)showthread_bookmarksite
  • (1)smqre_editor_button
  • (1)spacer_close
  • (1)spacer_open
  • (1)tagbit_wrapper 

Phrase Groups Available:
  • global
  • inlinemod
  • postbit
  • posting
  • reputationlevel
  • showthread
Included Files:
  • ./showthread.php
  • ./global.php
  • ./includes/init.php
  • ./includes/class_core.php
  • ./includes/config.php
  • ./includes/functions.php
  • ./includes/class_hook.php
  • ./includes/functions_notice.php
  • ./mobiquo/smartbanner.php
  • ./mobiquo/include/classTTConnection.php
  • ./mobiquo/smartbanner/head.inc.php
  • ./includes/functions_bigthree.php
  • ./includes/class_postbit.php
  • ./includes/class_bbcode.php
  • ./includes/functions_reputation.php
  • ./includes/adminfunctions_template.php
  • ./includes/functions_misc.php
  • ./includes/functions_post_thanks.php
  • ./includes/functions_post_groan.php 

Hooks Called:
  • init_startup
  • cache_permissions
  • fetch_threadinfo_query
  • fetch_threadinfo
  • fetch_foruminfo
  • style_fetch
  • cache_templates
  • global_start
  • parse_templates
  • fetch_musername
  • notices_check_start
  • global_setup_complete
  • showthread_start
  • template_groups
  • template_safe_functions
  • template_compile
  • showthread_getinfo
  • forumjump
  • showthread_post_start
  • showthread_query_postids
  • showthread_query
  • bbcode_fetch_tags
  • bbcode_create
  • showthread_postbit_create
  • postbit_factory
  • postbit_display_start
  • post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_start
  • post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_end
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_start
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_end
  • post_thanks_function_thanked_already_start
  • post_thanks_function_thanked_already_end
  • post_groan_function_post_groan_off_start
  • post_groan_function_post_groan_off_end
  • post_groan_function_fetch_groans_start
  • post_groan_function_fetch_groans_end
  • post_groan_function_groaned_already_start
  • post_groan_function_groaned_already_end
  • bbcode_parse_start
  • bbcode_parse_complete_precache
  • bbcode_parse_complete
  • postbit_display_complete
  • error_fetch
  • reputation_image
  • postbit_imicons
  • tag_fetchbit_complete
  • forumrules
  • showthread_bookmarkbit
  • navbits
  • navbits_complete
  • showthread_complete