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When I was first lurking around here and just beginning to wrap my brain around the idea of gentle discipline this thread was very helpful to me.

So helpful that I just spent about an hour trying all manner of search queries to track it down.

Maybe some things there will speak to your heart where you are on your journey?

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Married in 2003 to my favorite person in the wide world

Joyful momma to:

B - 7.5, my pensive planner
D - 5.5, my spunky sunshine
C - 3.5, my cuddly cutie

And baby girl A, born April 28!
Why, yes, I am ENFP

But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy. And the seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. James 3:17-18

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06-05-2012, 10:22 PM	#11
staceylayne Rose Garden Hopeful. Join Date: May 2011 Location: Dallas (ish) Posts: 3,596	Re: Talk to Me About Not Spanking and How. When I was first lurking around here and just beginning to wrap my brain around the idea of gentle discipline this thread was very helpful to me. So helpful that I just spent about an hour trying all manner of search queries to track it down. Maybe some things there will speak to your heart where you are on your journey? __________________ Married in 2003 to my favorite person in the wide world Joyful momma to: B - 7.5, my pensive planner D - 5.5, my spunky sunshine C - 3.5, my cuddly cutie And baby girl A, born April 28! Why, yes, I am ENFP But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy. And the seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. James 3:17-18 Last edited by staceylayne; 06-05-2012 at 10:24 PM. Reason: i can't spell

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