Whirlwind
01-13-2013, 11:57 PM
Something's been on my mind lately, and I'm wondering if I can articulate it in a way that will make sense to anyone else. Here goes . . .
It seems like a lot of the controversy and arguing among different Christian parenting experts is based around the notion that we should treat our children the way God treats us. And then people go on to argue about whether or not God is punitive or permissive or gentle or whatever with his people. (For the record, I think God has been incredibly gentle and full of grace in his dealings with me.)
Lately, I can't help but wonder if the whole argument isn't fundamentally flawed though. I'm not God. I can't see all ends the way he does. He is all-knowing and can judge a person's heart. I'm certainly not all-knowing and I'm told not to judge others. And is it really a healthy relationship paradigm for parents to draw constant parallels between themselves and God? It seems a bit arrogant to me.
I mean, I absolutely want to be Christ-like. I'm not denying that we should follow the Biblical examples of how we should treat each other. It's just . . .
I guess I just want to say that, just because God is a parent to me does not make me God to my children.
Does that make sense to anyone? Does anyone else have feelings about this?
It seems like a lot of the controversy and arguing among different Christian parenting experts is based around the notion that we should treat our children the way God treats us. And then people go on to argue about whether or not God is punitive or permissive or gentle or whatever with his people. (For the record, I think God has been incredibly gentle and full of grace in his dealings with me.)
Lately, I can't help but wonder if the whole argument isn't fundamentally flawed though. I'm not God. I can't see all ends the way he does. He is all-knowing and can judge a person's heart. I'm certainly not all-knowing and I'm told not to judge others. And is it really a healthy relationship paradigm for parents to draw constant parallels between themselves and God? It seems a bit arrogant to me.
I mean, I absolutely want to be Christ-like. I'm not denying that we should follow the Biblical examples of how we should treat each other. It's just . . .
I guess I just want to say that, just because God is a parent to me does not make me God to my children.
Does that make sense to anyone? Does anyone else have feelings about this?