jandjmommy
03-01-2012, 07:48 AM
We homeschool and the kids attend T/Th enrichment classes (gardening, art, science, etc.) at a charter school. DD turned 5 in Oct; she will be in K next year but I went ahead and signed her up for K this year as well so she could have her own spot in the classes (which she begged for).
The school is very rustic -- like being at camp! -- and very family friendly; there are always tons of moms and younger siblings around. This makes DD feel very comfortable (like she's around aunties and cousins), to the point that she wanders out of her classes to check out what's going on outside.
I usually stay on site but tried to leave a few times to run errands. Each time I was gone she didn't make it to the next class on her schedule.
Lesson learned: she is too little to choose class over playing on the playground. My fault entirely for pushing it. She does love the classes but I think loves exercising her freedom [when I'm off site] as well.
So for the remaining few weeks of the semester I'll stay on site 100% so I can keep her safe; if I have to run errands I'll take her with me instead of leaving her at the school.
All that to get to my question!:
Do you think her behavior is simply due to being a young 5? Or perhaps more just her personality (very independent)?
I'm hoping that by late Sept (she'll be nearly 6) when classes start up again she'll have the desire and/or will to stay in classes.
Feeling conflicted: I don't have any desire to put my kids in the care of the school (i.e., I don't need a break) but both kids tell me flat out that they don't need me to stay with them during classes. Obviously my choosing to stay (or not) is not their decision to make, but I don't want to smother their desire to be independent.
Thoughts?
The school is very rustic -- like being at camp! -- and very family friendly; there are always tons of moms and younger siblings around. This makes DD feel very comfortable (like she's around aunties and cousins), to the point that she wanders out of her classes to check out what's going on outside.
I usually stay on site but tried to leave a few times to run errands. Each time I was gone she didn't make it to the next class on her schedule.
Lesson learned: she is too little to choose class over playing on the playground. My fault entirely for pushing it. She does love the classes but I think loves exercising her freedom [when I'm off site] as well.
So for the remaining few weeks of the semester I'll stay on site 100% so I can keep her safe; if I have to run errands I'll take her with me instead of leaving her at the school.
All that to get to my question!:
Do you think her behavior is simply due to being a young 5? Or perhaps more just her personality (very independent)?
I'm hoping that by late Sept (she'll be nearly 6) when classes start up again she'll have the desire and/or will to stay in classes.
Feeling conflicted: I don't have any desire to put my kids in the care of the school (i.e., I don't need a break) but both kids tell me flat out that they don't need me to stay with them during classes. Obviously my choosing to stay (or not) is not their decision to make, but I don't want to smother their desire to be independent.
Thoughts?