Barefoot Bookworm
02-05-2012, 07:49 AM
My 4 year old daughter just got glasses. She was super excited about them at first and then she told me a couple mornings after that she didn't feel beautiful in them then pointed out that I wasn't wearing mine. So I took out my contacts and put on my glasses then we talked about how beautiful comes in all different styles and shapes. She seemed all right then another few days passed and she was sad that she didn't feel beautiful in her glasses so we had another talk about how many people in our family wore glasses and if we thought they were beautiful and handsome and that really beauty comes from being a good, kind person.
Fast forward to this morning, my husband was getting the older kids around while I nursed the baby and he forgot to grab her glasses. When I came downstairs I noticed she didn't have them on so my husband grabbed them for her. She sat down and cried her heart out saying that she was upset because she was cute without her glasses and Daddy ruined her cute face by putting her glasses on.
I have NO idea where she's getting the idea that glasses = not attractive because DH and I both wear them (I do wear contacts when we're out and about because they're easier for me to drive in but I wear my glasses at home and for a solid month, it was glasses only because I ran out of contacts). Almost all of her grandparents wear them, the majority of her uncles do, etc. No one in our family would say anything negative about them, no one has said anything but she looks gorgeous in them in front of me. I'm wondering if she might have heard something unkind at church that the teachers didn't inform me about.
Has anyone else been here? How do I help her realize that she is still Athena and just as beautiful as ever in her glasses?
Fast forward to this morning, my husband was getting the older kids around while I nursed the baby and he forgot to grab her glasses. When I came downstairs I noticed she didn't have them on so my husband grabbed them for her. She sat down and cried her heart out saying that she was upset because she was cute without her glasses and Daddy ruined her cute face by putting her glasses on.
I have NO idea where she's getting the idea that glasses = not attractive because DH and I both wear them (I do wear contacts when we're out and about because they're easier for me to drive in but I wear my glasses at home and for a solid month, it was glasses only because I ran out of contacts). Almost all of her grandparents wear them, the majority of her uncles do, etc. No one in our family would say anything negative about them, no one has said anything but she looks gorgeous in them in front of me. I'm wondering if she might have heard something unkind at church that the teachers didn't inform me about.
Has anyone else been here? How do I help her realize that she is still Athena and just as beautiful as ever in her glasses?