BlueWaterAnnie
09-30-2011, 04:49 AM
.....or am I?
I thought I'd be the uber crunchy AP mom who never turned on the TV. Right now, DD, 2.5 is watching Kai-Lan as I type this. I justify it since she's Asian and Kai-Lan is a good Asian role model. :shrug3
DD is also familiar with Blue's Clues, Wonder Pets and Olivia. Olivia is thanks to my parents, who let her watch it at their house. BC and WP are more from books featuring those characters, but still.
DD does watch carefully chosen and limited commercial free TV when I need a break.
I thought I'd be the mom who avoided commercializing her kid. I'm learning its everywhere. And when DD get presents featuring Disney princesses or tv characters....and she likes them!?
I justify it with the fact that she plays imagination games with these toys/characters and doesn't really know the shows/movies associated with them. For example, she has a Little Nemo book someone gave her that she loves to read, so she knows who Nemo is, but she's never seen the movie and has no idea it existis.
But she loves naming all her fish toys, "Nemo."
DD currently sleeps on Snow White sheets found at a garage sale because someone gave her a Snow White doll and DD remarked how Snow White has black hair and brown eyes "yike me!" and I caved because there are so few "princesses" or dolls that resemble my daughter. But she's never actually seen Snow White, the movie.
I thought I'd be the anti technology mom.
But as DD sees me on the computer (on GCM!) or checking email, DD wants her "puter" too. And DD is very good at using my ipad/iphone. I justify it by saying that DD learned to write some letters by using the Montessori tracing letters apps on my ipad. At two she started writing the letters in her name on paper.
I thought I'd be the natural, only wooden toys mom.
My DD's playroom is full of plastic Duplo blocks, a plastic doll house that was $1 at a garage sale rather than the $50 wooden one I wanted; full of plastic toy food and a plastic kitchen she loves to "cook" on.
I thought I'd be the mom who didn't stress about DD's milestones.
And here I am stressing because at 2.5 she is very anti-potty training to the point that asking her to go on the potty causes tears. So, I've dropped it and decided to let it go for awhile. But I still feel stressed when friends have babies completely potty trained at 2!
So, how about you? Are you the moms you'd thought you'd be?
I thought I'd be the uber crunchy AP mom who never turned on the TV. Right now, DD, 2.5 is watching Kai-Lan as I type this. I justify it since she's Asian and Kai-Lan is a good Asian role model. :shrug3
DD is also familiar with Blue's Clues, Wonder Pets and Olivia. Olivia is thanks to my parents, who let her watch it at their house. BC and WP are more from books featuring those characters, but still.
DD does watch carefully chosen and limited commercial free TV when I need a break.
I thought I'd be the mom who avoided commercializing her kid. I'm learning its everywhere. And when DD get presents featuring Disney princesses or tv characters....and she likes them!?
I justify it with the fact that she plays imagination games with these toys/characters and doesn't really know the shows/movies associated with them. For example, she has a Little Nemo book someone gave her that she loves to read, so she knows who Nemo is, but she's never seen the movie and has no idea it existis.
But she loves naming all her fish toys, "Nemo."
DD currently sleeps on Snow White sheets found at a garage sale because someone gave her a Snow White doll and DD remarked how Snow White has black hair and brown eyes "yike me!" and I caved because there are so few "princesses" or dolls that resemble my daughter. But she's never actually seen Snow White, the movie.
I thought I'd be the anti technology mom.
But as DD sees me on the computer (on GCM!) or checking email, DD wants her "puter" too. And DD is very good at using my ipad/iphone. I justify it by saying that DD learned to write some letters by using the Montessori tracing letters apps on my ipad. At two she started writing the letters in her name on paper.
I thought I'd be the natural, only wooden toys mom.
My DD's playroom is full of plastic Duplo blocks, a plastic doll house that was $1 at a garage sale rather than the $50 wooden one I wanted; full of plastic toy food and a plastic kitchen she loves to "cook" on.
I thought I'd be the mom who didn't stress about DD's milestones.
And here I am stressing because at 2.5 she is very anti-potty training to the point that asking her to go on the potty causes tears. So, I've dropped it and decided to let it go for awhile. But I still feel stressed when friends have babies completely potty trained at 2!
So, how about you? Are you the moms you'd thought you'd be?