littlemama
04-10-2010, 07:32 PM
We were at the park with the kids today and a Mama with two young boys (I'd say 5-6yrs and 2yrs) appeared nearby. She was going to practice baseball with the oldest. The younger began crying....he wanted her to push him on the swing.
She began getting after him to stop it, threatening to go home, rolling her eyes, etc. Once she did finally take him over, "I'll push you ONCE but that's it!!!" He continued to cry as she walked away from him. She went back over and as she scooped him up out of the swing, "FINE. We are going home then." But she didn't..she just sat with him for a minute to get him to calm down.
In the mean time the older son had made a new friend, a little boy his age who came over to talk to him.
After she got him settled she went back over to the older son. The younger followed, crying again. But now, reaching for his Mama. She started to practice ball again and as the little one came closer she yelled and held her hand out to him, "STOP. DO NOT come any closer. You will get hit!!!!"
Immediately after she said that, she turned to this new friend the older son had made. She offered him the extra baseball mitt and said, "Would you like to play??"
The younger son stood there, the crying continued, and he kept reaching for her, "Mama!! Mama!!!"
:cry
It was heartbreaking. All he wanted was to be included and have some of his Mama's attention. Why couldn't he help catch the balls his brother was hitting towards them? He wasn't hitting them hard enough for the little one to be hit and hurt. And most of them were grounders and he was only hitting a few she threw.
We started to go over as we were leaving and offer the little guy some bubbles to play with but the new friend's mother stepped in. She offered to take him to swing but he wouldn't go. I don't blame him. A strange lady is coming over offering to take him away from his Mama. I wouldn't want to go either.
She began getting after him to stop it, threatening to go home, rolling her eyes, etc. Once she did finally take him over, "I'll push you ONCE but that's it!!!" He continued to cry as she walked away from him. She went back over and as she scooped him up out of the swing, "FINE. We are going home then." But she didn't..she just sat with him for a minute to get him to calm down.
In the mean time the older son had made a new friend, a little boy his age who came over to talk to him.
After she got him settled she went back over to the older son. The younger followed, crying again. But now, reaching for his Mama. She started to practice ball again and as the little one came closer she yelled and held her hand out to him, "STOP. DO NOT come any closer. You will get hit!!!!"
Immediately after she said that, she turned to this new friend the older son had made. She offered him the extra baseball mitt and said, "Would you like to play??"
The younger son stood there, the crying continued, and he kept reaching for her, "Mama!! Mama!!!"
:cry
It was heartbreaking. All he wanted was to be included and have some of his Mama's attention. Why couldn't he help catch the balls his brother was hitting towards them? He wasn't hitting them hard enough for the little one to be hit and hurt. And most of them were grounders and he was only hitting a few she threw.
We started to go over as we were leaving and offer the little guy some bubbles to play with but the new friend's mother stepped in. She offered to take him to swing but he wouldn't go. I don't blame him. A strange lady is coming over offering to take him away from his Mama. I wouldn't want to go either.