bananacake
04-21-2009, 07:03 PM
I'm looking for some advice about 7 months in advance :)
Our mattress is on the floor and Bear's crib mattress is next to our mattress. He starts off the night on his mattress, but wakes to nurse and climb all over us. Honestly, I do not wake up if he climbs on me. I woke up last night, needing to use the bathroom, and he was in a deep sleep on my calves :giggle I just sleep right through it.
So how do we make this work with a newborn? Bear (who will be 27.5 months when Baby-on-the-way arrives) did not co-sleep until he was 5.5 months. He slept horribly in a pack 'n play, and then transitioned to his crib, but at 5.5 months, he was too big & strong to stay swaddled and would not sleep if he wasn't in our bed. When he started crawling, we put the beds on the floor.
We sleep on a full-sized bed (is that the other name for a double?). And I don't want to kick DH out because I don't sleep well without him there. It's not even that I need to be touching him, but my subconscious knows he's not there :giggle I don't think a bigger bed is an option. As it is, we cannot fit a full-sized box spring up the stairs. I don't think a queen mattress would fit up the stairs, but maybe it would.
I was thinking of starting the baby in a co-sleeper of some sort, but I drove myself crazy with that last time. Bear was a horrible sleeper from the get-go, and no amount of training or "No Cry Sleep Solution" changed that. The other tricky thing is that Bear will not get his own room. The other 2 bedrooms are on another floor and I'm not comfortable having him that far away. So likely, we will section off part of the office (which is next to the bedroom) for his bedroom whenever he is ready for it.
Help? Advice? How have others dealt with this transition, especially with non-night weaned, high needs kids? I'll try to NW him prior to November, but who knows.
Our mattress is on the floor and Bear's crib mattress is next to our mattress. He starts off the night on his mattress, but wakes to nurse and climb all over us. Honestly, I do not wake up if he climbs on me. I woke up last night, needing to use the bathroom, and he was in a deep sleep on my calves :giggle I just sleep right through it.
So how do we make this work with a newborn? Bear (who will be 27.5 months when Baby-on-the-way arrives) did not co-sleep until he was 5.5 months. He slept horribly in a pack 'n play, and then transitioned to his crib, but at 5.5 months, he was too big & strong to stay swaddled and would not sleep if he wasn't in our bed. When he started crawling, we put the beds on the floor.
We sleep on a full-sized bed (is that the other name for a double?). And I don't want to kick DH out because I don't sleep well without him there. It's not even that I need to be touching him, but my subconscious knows he's not there :giggle I don't think a bigger bed is an option. As it is, we cannot fit a full-sized box spring up the stairs. I don't think a queen mattress would fit up the stairs, but maybe it would.
I was thinking of starting the baby in a co-sleeper of some sort, but I drove myself crazy with that last time. Bear was a horrible sleeper from the get-go, and no amount of training or "No Cry Sleep Solution" changed that. The other tricky thing is that Bear will not get his own room. The other 2 bedrooms are on another floor and I'm not comfortable having him that far away. So likely, we will section off part of the office (which is next to the bedroom) for his bedroom whenever he is ready for it.
Help? Advice? How have others dealt with this transition, especially with non-night weaned, high needs kids? I'll try to NW him prior to November, but who knows.