Marsha
08-09-2007, 08:01 AM
We have a 5 yo dd who still requires someone to lay with her to go to sleep. And when she wakes, she joins someone in their bed, we have a weird version of muscial beds going on. But usually she wants me.
So, my question is, I still nurse my two year old to sleep (usually at the computer) and until two days ago, just laid her on the couch, and when I went to bed, took her to bed. That way if she woke up, I just picked her up and didn't lose my place in a show or my book or what have you.
Now, I have a twin bed for her, so I've been laying her down there. But I go and join her when she wakes, because she has never once ever been to sleep by herself, and has no understanding of it.
I've still been thinking she was a baby.
But am I setting her up to be like the 5 yo?
Because neither one of us care for her insistence on joining us, but neither one of us are willing to deal with it right now, either.
I just tend to do what takes less time, which is taking care of them immediately.
So, my question is, I still nurse my two year old to sleep (usually at the computer) and until two days ago, just laid her on the couch, and when I went to bed, took her to bed. That way if she woke up, I just picked her up and didn't lose my place in a show or my book or what have you.
Now, I have a twin bed for her, so I've been laying her down there. But I go and join her when she wakes, because she has never once ever been to sleep by herself, and has no understanding of it.
I've still been thinking she was a baby.
But am I setting her up to be like the 5 yo?
Because neither one of us care for her insistence on joining us, but neither one of us are willing to deal with it right now, either.
I just tend to do what takes less time, which is taking care of them immediately.