zak
05-12-2007, 01:21 PM
I probably already know what you're going to say... :giggle but... I thought I'd vent/ask anyway. ;)
Reid is waking a lot at night - not nursing anymore - just waking crying (he always cries when he wakes, is that weird?) and looking for me and my HAIR. :/ My hair has been his "lovey" since he was 6 months old. I moved his twin bed away from our King and bought a bedrail... now I'm not so sure it was good timing. He's the one who asked for his own bed with "green sheets" - so that's what I did. It's a LOT of work at night. I am up and down between the twin and King (both in our room) - oh, and the bathroom trips too. The twin is uncomfortable and I wake up with a headache or a backache or both most mornings when I've spent the majority of my time in the twin. He was sleeping longer stretches... and now back to being awake a lot at night. I'll JUST get into a nice deep sleep and I hear him cry and say "Mama hold you". I mean, it's sweet, but he wants me in the twin and he wants to hold my hair. If I'm in the twin and I get up to use the bathroom (which is a lot already... preggy bladder and all) he cries for me the whole time I'm in the bathroom. :(
I guess I'm just frustrated and want him to sleep. lol Who wouldn't? His 2 year molars are in, so I don't think it's teething related. Oh, and for naps he'll sleep for one hour and then wake and as long as I (and my hair) are laying with him he'll sleep for another 40-60 minutes.
Is it just a "this age" kind of thing? When are children capable of going to sleep/back to sleep on their own? I don't regret our night-time decisions - not in the least, but I am tired. :yawn This is the same kid who nursed every 2 hours on the DOT well past his first birthday. I can generally cope with the nighttime issues, but... like I said, I am tired. ;)
I just needed to get that out. ;) Even if you all tell me your children didn't go to sleep on their own until they were 5 years old, lol, it feels good to get this out. :)
Do you think it would be unwise to move his twin back next to our bed? I think I'd get more sleep that way... but he'd still cry when I go to the bathroom, I'm sure. I'm open to suggestions/ideas. :) I know there isn't a thing in the world I can "do" to get him to sleep... I was just wondering when it might happen on its own and some ways to cope with this issue we have at the moment. I know nighttime waking is really common through the preschool years, it's just that no one ever talks about it (well, mainstream people anyway!).
Reid is waking a lot at night - not nursing anymore - just waking crying (he always cries when he wakes, is that weird?) and looking for me and my HAIR. :/ My hair has been his "lovey" since he was 6 months old. I moved his twin bed away from our King and bought a bedrail... now I'm not so sure it was good timing. He's the one who asked for his own bed with "green sheets" - so that's what I did. It's a LOT of work at night. I am up and down between the twin and King (both in our room) - oh, and the bathroom trips too. The twin is uncomfortable and I wake up with a headache or a backache or both most mornings when I've spent the majority of my time in the twin. He was sleeping longer stretches... and now back to being awake a lot at night. I'll JUST get into a nice deep sleep and I hear him cry and say "Mama hold you". I mean, it's sweet, but he wants me in the twin and he wants to hold my hair. If I'm in the twin and I get up to use the bathroom (which is a lot already... preggy bladder and all) he cries for me the whole time I'm in the bathroom. :(
I guess I'm just frustrated and want him to sleep. lol Who wouldn't? His 2 year molars are in, so I don't think it's teething related. Oh, and for naps he'll sleep for one hour and then wake and as long as I (and my hair) are laying with him he'll sleep for another 40-60 minutes.
Is it just a "this age" kind of thing? When are children capable of going to sleep/back to sleep on their own? I don't regret our night-time decisions - not in the least, but I am tired. :yawn This is the same kid who nursed every 2 hours on the DOT well past his first birthday. I can generally cope with the nighttime issues, but... like I said, I am tired. ;)
I just needed to get that out. ;) Even if you all tell me your children didn't go to sleep on their own until they were 5 years old, lol, it feels good to get this out. :)
Do you think it would be unwise to move his twin back next to our bed? I think I'd get more sleep that way... but he'd still cry when I go to the bathroom, I'm sure. I'm open to suggestions/ideas. :) I know there isn't a thing in the world I can "do" to get him to sleep... I was just wondering when it might happen on its own and some ways to cope with this issue we have at the moment. I know nighttime waking is really common through the preschool years, it's just that no one ever talks about it (well, mainstream people anyway!).