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purplerose
02-06-2007, 06:24 PM
We were shopping at the commissary and he just wouldn't stop bugging the baby. The baby kept crying and he just kept hitting, etc. The baby was screaming. I kept asking JOshie nicely to stop but he wouldn't so I was jsut so flustered and with everything going on right now........medical stuff, dh deploying, my parents, etc that I just grabbed a chunk of hair and pulled it. He cried. I feel soooooooooooooooooo bad right now :cry
Maggie
02-06-2007, 06:26 PM
((((((((Lara and Joshie)))))))
hey mommy
02-06-2007, 10:16 PM
:hug2
cindergretta
02-06-2007, 10:29 PM
Oy! What a day! I think mama is very stressed right now and ds is reacting to that stress. Which is creating *more* stress. Grace is for mamas, too.

:hugs to you both. You need them.
Aisling
02-06-2007, 10:31 PM
:hug2 :hug2 :hug2
lumpofclay
02-06-2007, 10:52 PM
Apologies from mama go a long way in healing hurts like this! (I know!) :hug2
Wonder Woman
02-07-2007, 04:51 AM
:hugheart
hey mommy
02-07-2007, 09:06 AM
Apologies from mama go a long way in healing hurts like this! (I know!) :hug2


I agree.. Apologies and asking forgivness... yep, I know all too well too.......
ProudMommaof2
02-07-2007, 12:02 PM
Apologies from mama go a long way in healing hurts like this! (I know!) :hug2


I agree.. Apologies and asking forgivness... yep, I know all too well too.......

Me too. :hug2
kiloyd
02-07-2007, 12:14 PM
Aaaww, :hug2

We've all done things we wished we hadn't done. The good part is tomorrow is a new day and you'll get lots more chances.

I've been there too.
Jenny
02-07-2007, 12:22 PM
:hug2 I think we've all done something we regret out of stress and frustration.
Joy7
02-07-2007, 07:47 PM
:hug2
joyful mama
02-07-2007, 07:58 PM
:hug2 I think we've all done something we regret out of stress and frustration.
yes. its an aweful feeling :hugheart. for me, asking forgiveness and making ammends helps to mend our relationship. :hug2
kiloyd
02-08-2007, 09:32 AM
:hug2 I think we've all done something we regret out of stress and frustration.


I know I have!
KitKat
02-08-2007, 10:32 PM
:hug2


Honey, I know the pre-deployment days are almost worse than the actual deployment. If you ever need to talk, please PM me. I do know what you are feeling, I have been there, and I always get testy too. Explain to your ds that there is extra stress and even mommies make mistakes when they have big feelings. I remember explaining to ds before dh deployed the last time that "it's mommy's turn to throw a fit". He sat their and rubbed my head while I cried.

As I said, PM if you need to vent or anything.