hink4687
12-20-2006, 09:19 AM
So I'm off to visit my family for christmas. My sister is very punitive and my parents tend to follow her lead because they live in the same town and see her and her kids every day. I get a lot of flack for not spanking and they seem to think because of that I am permissive (which I really strive to not be!). Here's my vent from thanksgiving if you want to see what I'm talking about:
http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/mb/index.php?topic=88211.0
Any advise on how I can stand my ground and make this a positive experience? I hate it because I love my sister and parents so much and we've never ran into a major disagreement like this before. My sister and I have always been best friends and we are just totally opposite parents and it hurts me to watch how she raises her kids. I just wish there was some way I could be a positive influence on her but being we don't see each other very often now that we've moved away its just hard. Please pray for me that we have a good trip and somehow make an influence on her!
http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/mb/index.php?topic=88211.0
Any advise on how I can stand my ground and make this a positive experience? I hate it because I love my sister and parents so much and we've never ran into a major disagreement like this before. My sister and I have always been best friends and we are just totally opposite parents and it hurts me to watch how she raises her kids. I just wish there was some way I could be a positive influence on her but being we don't see each other very often now that we've moved away its just hard. Please pray for me that we have a good trip and somehow make an influence on her!