Chris3jam
11-07-2006, 04:04 PM
You know, I may be paranoid, but I think that I'm being. . . .well, that someone is 'concerned' about us (discipline-wise). I get fresh raw cow's milk every week, and there's a lady from our church that goes along. Now, she doesn't have to. . .and I can tell that her patience gets a little thin with the kids. My kids are enthusiastic and can be loud and busy, and all her kids are raised and gone, so. . . . .. ..
But, she has 'shared' a few things with me. One was the the little story about the little boy who was kind of having a bad day. This little boy was being cantankerous, and his dad kept warning him, but he wouldn't 'straighten' up. So, the little boy finally got what his dad kept saying was going to happen if he didn't 'straighten up'. . . a spanking was the consequence. Now, the 'normal' thing for this "sin" was 4 licks. And the dad just gave him 3. And then he took him out to get him ice cream. And he explained. . . ."Son do you remember when I gave you only 3 licks, when you should have gotten 4? That was mercy. And this ice cream? You did nothing to deserve this ice cream. . . .it is unmerited favor. That is Grace." That was the quick version.
Anyway. . .she is very, very subtle about it. . ..but I think she may have it in mind to 'change my ways' about spanking. :no2 She always has a little something to 'share' or a little word or two. . . very, very subtle. . . ..very non-confrontational. . . .very gentle and quiet. Now, I don't know if I'm being irritated for nothing. . .but that is the sense I'm getting. I was getting just a wee bit irritated at her. . .and I kept wondering why. .. .and I think that maybe that could be it. . . . :scratch
Now. .. . can you all help me with this? Is there anything *I* can do, in the same vein, in the same spirit, that could put a bug in *her* ear? Any little stories (like the one above) that I can 'share'? Any gentle thing I could say that could make her think? Kind of turn the tables on her a bit?
But, she has 'shared' a few things with me. One was the the little story about the little boy who was kind of having a bad day. This little boy was being cantankerous, and his dad kept warning him, but he wouldn't 'straighten' up. So, the little boy finally got what his dad kept saying was going to happen if he didn't 'straighten up'. . . a spanking was the consequence. Now, the 'normal' thing for this "sin" was 4 licks. And the dad just gave him 3. And then he took him out to get him ice cream. And he explained. . . ."Son do you remember when I gave you only 3 licks, when you should have gotten 4? That was mercy. And this ice cream? You did nothing to deserve this ice cream. . . .it is unmerited favor. That is Grace." That was the quick version.
Anyway. . .she is very, very subtle about it. . ..but I think she may have it in mind to 'change my ways' about spanking. :no2 She always has a little something to 'share' or a little word or two. . . very, very subtle. . . ..very non-confrontational. . . .very gentle and quiet. Now, I don't know if I'm being irritated for nothing. . .but that is the sense I'm getting. I was getting just a wee bit irritated at her. . .and I kept wondering why. .. .and I think that maybe that could be it. . . . :scratch
Now. .. . can you all help me with this? Is there anything *I* can do, in the same vein, in the same spirit, that could put a bug in *her* ear? Any little stories (like the one above) that I can 'share'? Any gentle thing I could say that could make her think? Kind of turn the tables on her a bit?