Gentle Christian Mothers Community
 
Random Quotes from Wise Mamas

~* Please help keep GCM free by using our
Amazon.com affiliate link. Thank you! *~


Go Back   Gentle Christian Mothers Community > Specific Issues > Gentle Discipline *Public*
Forgot Password? Join Us!

Gentle Discipline *Public* A public forum.
GCM Webpage: Gentle Discipline

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 01-12-2009, 08:51 PM   #1
MaiMama
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: DFW
Posts: 5,564
MaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond reputeMaiMama has a reputation beyond repute
Default So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

"because the Lord disciplines those he loves,
and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son."


I thought y'all have said on here often that God doesn't punish his children. But this verse says he does.


I believe in Gentle Parenting, but I know part of the argument is that God doesn't treat his kids that way, and this verse says he does. Now what?


__________________
Mai
Married to my love, Jimmy 3/9/2000
Grateful Mama to:
Trinity Rain - The Matrix, 2004
Jackson Atreyu - The Neverending Story, 2006
Bella Adalyn - Twilight, 2009
and introducing:
Lincoln Ambassador - Fringe, 12/16/2012
remembering Aviva Ata '08
MaiMama is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 08:53 PM   #2
Teribear
Deactivated
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 7,691
Teribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

It is a poor translation. Crystal has a post on it somewhere I think. I'll see if I can find it.
Teribear is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:02 PM   #3
brandi
Deactivated
 
1 Imitate God, therefore, in everything that you do, because you are his dear children.
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Alabama
Posts: 3,814
brandi is a glorious beacon of lightbrandi is a glorious beacon of lightbrandi is a glorious beacon of lightbrandi is a glorious beacon of lightbrandi is a glorious beacon of lightbrandi is a glorious beacon of lightbrandi is a glorious beacon of light
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

brandi is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:38 PM   #4
erinee
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 8,072
erinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

I wonder, too. I can't find a translation at blb.org that doesn't make this seem punitive. My own verision (NASB) says scourge. Mine is the Key Word Study BIble, which Crystal recommended to me, and the Greek word is mastigoo, which means "to scourge." Strong's (which I know some here don't like) adds that it's a "metaphor of God as a father chastising and training men as children by afflictions."

I'm certainly NOT arguing in favor of punitive parenting, and even if this verse really *is* saying that God sometimes punishes his children, it wouldn't change my mind about spanking -- after all, I'm not God. I know Crystal will have an explanation, but it's just very confusing to me how I'm supposed to read the Bible and know what the author was *really* saying when even the original text implies physical punishment. I want to be able to read and study it on my own. That's why I got the study Bible with the Hebrew & Greek dictionaries, but if even those are faulty, I don't know what to do.

And I know Paul was using Greek words to express Hebraic ideas, so it was rather limited, but right before the use of mastigoo he uses the word paideutes, which means instruction and nurture, the way we at GCM understand discipline. If Paul didn't mean that God also punishes us in addition to disciplining, why use a different verb?

Sorry, just a moment of frustration.
__________________
Erin, Saxophonist for Ginger and Her Baked Goods and The Starving Artists, Youth Services Specialist at the Elkhart Public Library, and Mom to Zach (3/98) and Elio (3/02)
erinee is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:42 PM   #5
happyhousewife
Rose Garden
 
Constantly striving to be a gentle mother.
 
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: East TX(the Ark-La-Tex)
Posts: 4,002
happyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to allhappyhousewife is a name known to all
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

__________________
Child of the King
ISFP
Married since 1994
Mama to
DS1- 13, DS2- 9, DS3- 6











happyhousewife is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:42 PM   #6
Teribear
Deactivated
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 7,691
Teribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond reputeTeribear has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

Actually IIRC the translation was in which son...and was about the ONE perfect son...Jesus...who took our punishment on the cross. Hopefully Crystal will see this and can point us in the right direction because I can't find what I'm looking for right now.
Teribear is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:43 PM   #7
hopefromgrace
Climbing Rose
 
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 1,198
hopefromgrace has disabled reputation
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

__________________
Grace~
Married to Papa Bear, my soul mate, my love, my friend.
Mama to Hope, my amazing, sweet, funny 9 y.o.!
and precious baby Harmony born 9/6/10-my labor day baby!
Both born at home.

missing our angel babies, 9/07 and 11/08

When Mother Teresa received her nobel prize, she was asked,"What can we do to promote world peace?"
She replied, "Go home and love your family."



hopefromgrace is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:43 PM   #8
erinee
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 8,072
erinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond reputeerinee has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

Quote:
Originally Posted by Teribear
Actually IIRC the translation was in which son...and was about the ONE perfect son...Jesus...who took our punishment on the cross. Hopefully Crystal will see this and can point us in the right direction because I can't find what I'm looking for right now.
Ahhh, now that makes a LOT of sense!
__________________
Erin, Saxophonist for Ginger and Her Baked Goods and The Starving Artists, Youth Services Specialist at the Elkhart Public Library, and Mom to Zach (3/98) and Elio (3/02)
erinee is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 09:59 PM   #9
light of mine
Rose Trellis
I support GCM!
 
Baby smooches
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: TN
Posts: 2,546
light of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond reputelight of mine has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

__________________
~Christina, WAHM, Devoted wife to my wonderful DH 2001, Loving mother to DD Cola 01/06 and DS Q-man 03/08, DD Nutter 'Butter 12/2010, and new DD babybear 11/13
light of mine is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 10:04 PM   #10
BHope
Rose Garden
 
Finding the Good
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Texas
Posts: 12,816
BHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond reputeBHope has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

I started a post about this a year or two ago. I'm going to dig it up and see if helps at all.

A few links to read:
http://www.gentlechristianmothers.co...topic=201463.0

http://www.gentlechristianmothers.co...?topic=28507.0

http://www.gentlechristianmothers.co...topic=101253.0

And ETA: I can't find the one where I actually participated in the discussion. Go figure. I'm too tired, I'll find it later.
__________________
Manda
Single Mama to my three beautiful kiddos:

DD1 (8 years old)
DD2 (6 years old)
DD3 (4.5 years old)

Eternally missing DFS3 (stored safely in our hearts) and DFS1
Praying for Little R as she transitions into a new family.
May you always know God's love and His comfort.
BHope is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 10:06 PM   #11
Charlie U
Rose Garden
I support GCM!
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: The Ove Glove, saving hands like a BOSS.
Posts: 14,643
Charlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond reputeCharlie U has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

Here's a link from not too long ago. http://www.gentlechristianmothers.co...topic=201463.0
__________________
"People are going to feel sorry for you. They'll tell you that you can't anticipate the unthinkable. The fact is you can. It's just not all that pleasant." - House

But it's hard living life on this memory-go-round. Always up, always down. Spinning 'round and 'round and 'round. All this could be just a dream so it seems I was never much good at goodbye.
Charlie U is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-12-2009, 10:13 PM   #12
saturnfire16
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: North Eastern CA
Posts: 9,119
saturnfire16 has disabled reputation
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

In my Bible, this verse is in quotes starting in verse 5. "And you have forgotten the appeal which speaks to you as sons, "My son, do not despise the disciplinge of God, nor faint when you are reproved by Him, for whom God loves, He disciplines, and flogs every son whom He receives."

The foot notes refer me to Proverbs 3:11-12 for the source of the quote, which says "My son, do not despise the discipline of God, And do not loathe His reproof; For whom God loves He reproves, as a father the son whom he delights in."
No pysical punishment in "reproof."

It goes on to say in verse 9 "Moreover, we indeed had fathers of our flesh disciplining us, and we paid them respect...." So, it talks about earthly fathers disciplining, but doesn't say scourge or flog there.
__________________
~Emily
INTJ, Type 4

Wife to D
Mama to:
E 12/05
L 7/08
Z 12/10
A 6/14
and J in heaven 2/10

Torah Keeping, Unschooling Family

My blog on unschooling and family life: Peace On Dark Nights.
saturnfire16 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-13-2009, 02:29 AM   #13
Englishgirl
Guest
 
 
Posts: n/a
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

  Reply With Quote
Old 01-13-2009, 04:24 AM   #14
Wonder Woman
Deactivated
I support GCM!
 
Yep. I'm a 3.
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 19,140
Wonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond reputeWonder Woman has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

http://aolff.com/?page_id=42

Quote:
One interesting thing I’ve found about this passage that I will share. Apparently the word “scourge” first appears in the KJV and then is translated back into Greek texts by later translators. This is supported by the fact that the references in the study Bible are for Strong’s dictionary which is the dictionary for the KJV. I contacted the head of the Aramaic Society which is very much into researching the most original texts, and this is what I learned. Aramaic is the oldest Semitic language and basically original Hebrew. In the version of the Bible they are releasing, this is how the passage reads for verse 6: “For those whom the Lord loves He chastens him, and disciplines the son in whom He is pleased.” I was assured that in the oldest versions of this text the idea of scourge is nowhere present. Discipline yes. Scourge no. This would be a more accurate representation of the verses being cited.
Wonder Woman is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 01-13-2009, 04:49 AM   #15
TraceMama
Rose Garden
 
 
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 21,723
TraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond reputeTraceMama has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: So what do we do about Hebrews 12:6?

Quote:
Originally Posted by erinee
...but it's just very confusing to me how I'm supposed to read the Bible and know what the author was *really* saying when even the original text implies physical punishment. I want to be able to read and study it on my own. That's why I got the study Bible with the Hebrew & Greek dictionaries, but if even those are faulty, I don't know what to do...

...Sorry, just a moment of frustration.
I just had to comment by shaking my head. I *so* totally understand this frustration and often wish that there were a way to get around all the difficulties of translation and word origins when it comes to studying the Bible. :/ In fact, your frustration is one of the reasons dh is hesitant to really dig into Bible study in the first place.

And what is this Bible that the Aramaic Society is releasing? It sounds like it might try to address some of the bigger translation issues.
__________________
Tracey
Blessed to be married 24 years. Ever-learning Gentle Mama to 3 Amazing Boys (17, 14, 12)

I am determined to be invincible until He has finished His purpose in me.
TraceMama is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:51 AM.


A variety of opinions and ideas are shared on GCM. Personal experiences, suggestions, and tips found here are in no way intended to substitute for medical counsel from a healthcare professional. Always use your own good judgement and seek professional advice when in doubt about a health concern.

Amazon.com affiliate link

Copyright 1997-2017 by Gentle Christian Mothers™
An alternative-minded, evangelical Christian community supporting attachment parenting and natural living.

Do not post content elsewhere.
http://www.gentlechristianmothers.com/community/

Some smilies created and copyrighted by Mazeguy.
Some smilies and avatars created and copyrighted by flowermama and children -- do not use elsewhere.

Soli Deo Gloria
To God only wise, be glory through Jesus Christ for ever. Amen. ~ Romans 16:27 (KJV)

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.

X vBulletin 3.8.3 Debug Information
  • Page Generation 0.27568 seconds
  • Memory Usage 8,040KB
  • Queries Executed 13 (?)
More Information
Template Usage:
  • (1)SHOWTHREAD
  • (1)ad_footer_end
  • (1)ad_footer_start
  • (1)ad_header_end
  • (1)ad_header_logo
  • (1)ad_navbar_below
  • (1)ad_showthread_beforeqr
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost_sig
  • (1)ad_showthread_firstpost_start
  • (3)bbcode_quote
  • (1)cyb_flashimagebanners
  • (1)footer
  • (1)forumjump
  • (1)forumrules
  • (1)gobutton
  • (1)header
  • (1)headinclude
  • (1)navbar
  • (3)navbar_link
  • (60)option
  • (1)pagenav
  • (1)pagenav_curpage
  • (2)pagenav_pagelink
  • (15)post_groan_box
  • (1)post_groan_javascript
  • (1)post_groan_navbar_search
  • (15)post_thanks_box
  • (1)post_thanks_javascript
  • (1)post_thanks_navbar_search
  • (15)postbit_legacy
  • (14)postbit_onlinestatus
  • (127)postbit_reputation
  • (15)postbit_wrapper
  • (4)showthread_bookmarksite
  • (1)smqre_editor_button
  • (1)spacer_close
  • (1)spacer_open
  • (1)tagbit_wrapper 

Phrase Groups Available:
  • global
  • inlinemod
  • postbit
  • posting
  • reputationlevel
  • showthread
Included Files:
  • ./showthread.php
  • ./global.php
  • ./includes/init.php
  • ./includes/class_core.php
  • ./includes/config.php
  • ./includes/functions.php
  • ./includes/class_hook.php
  • ./includes/functions_notice.php
  • ./mobiquo/smartbanner.php
  • ./mobiquo/include/classTTConnection.php
  • ./mobiquo/smartbanner/head.inc.php
  • ./includes/functions_bigthree.php
  • ./includes/class_postbit.php
  • ./includes/class_bbcode.php
  • ./includes/functions_reputation.php
  • ./includes/adminfunctions_template.php
  • ./includes/functions_misc.php
  • ./includes/functions_post_thanks.php
  • ./includes/functions_post_groan.php 

Hooks Called:
  • init_startup
  • cache_permissions
  • fetch_threadinfo_query
  • fetch_threadinfo
  • fetch_foruminfo
  • style_fetch
  • cache_templates
  • global_start
  • parse_templates
  • fetch_musername
  • notices_check_start
  • global_setup_complete
  • showthread_start
  • template_groups
  • template_safe_functions
  • template_compile
  • showthread_getinfo
  • forumjump
  • showthread_post_start
  • showthread_query_postids
  • showthread_query
  • bbcode_fetch_tags
  • bbcode_create
  • showthread_postbit_create
  • postbit_factory
  • postbit_display_start
  • post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_start
  • post_thanks_function_post_thanks_off_end
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_start
  • post_thanks_function_fetch_thanks_end
  • post_thanks_function_thanked_already_start
  • post_thanks_function_thanked_already_end
  • post_groan_function_post_groan_off_start
  • post_groan_function_post_groan_off_end
  • post_groan_function_fetch_groans_start
  • post_groan_function_fetch_groans_end
  • post_groan_function_groaned_already_start
  • post_groan_function_groaned_already_end
  • reputation_image
  • bbcode_parse_start
  • postbit_imicons
  • bbcode_parse_complete_precache
  • bbcode_parse_complete
  • postbit_display_complete
  • error_fetch
  • pagenav_page
  • pagenav_complete
  • tag_fetchbit_complete
  • forumrules
  • showthread_bookmarkbit
  • navbits
  • navbits_complete
  • showthread_complete