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07-18-2008, 05:52 AM | #1 |
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I am the mountain. I am not the storm and the storm is not me. -Ian Cron
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ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
Week three
Attitude shift - Harnessing the Power of Free will Reason; the only person you can make change is yourself Discipline skill: choices Value: COmmitment Review the challenge p 262 and 263 - how are you doing? What changes do you want to make? CHeck the reading for the week *p 45 to 46 Power of Free will *p 57 and 58 *Ch 5 Did you read this? If yes, re-read what you need review and set some goals for today Let's celebrate our successes and work on our challenges. A cord of 3 strands is not easily broken. Only 2 people expressed opinions on continuing the challenge for a week to discuss the extra challenges - I share that opinon so we will continue the challenge an extra week praying today is a GREAT day
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07-18-2008, 05:56 AM | #2 |
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I am the mountain. I am not the storm and the storm is not me. -Ian Cron
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
My goals for the weekend is to
*be the person I WANT to be It could be easy or hard because we have a BUSY weekend ahead *Reprint my cheat sheets and read them (they got soaked when Savana dumped water on my book) after adding "try it now" bullet points from the end of the chapters on the 7 discipline skills *treat dh assertively and kindly praying for each and every one of you as we make these changes together
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07-18-2008, 09:17 AM | #3 | |||
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
Will come back to state my goals, but wanted to comment on this:
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07-18-2008, 02:13 PM | #4 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
I'm still here, still working at the challenge
My goals for today: - reconnect with Cole - recognize *my* choices - catch up on my reading So has anyone come up with a good way to get their dh's to stop being passive and move towards being more assertive with the kids? My dh is sooooo passive in his wording of things. It drives me bonkers because the kids don't respond to it very well. I know he is trying to be "nice", but it is so confusing to the kids when he asks "Cole, why don't you come help me clear the table" and Cole says "No" then he changes it to "No, Cole. You need to come help."
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07-18-2008, 02:39 PM | #5 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
subbing
Still haven't read the chapter.
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07-18-2008, 03:08 PM | #6 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
I am mostly finished with my notecards. This started as a quest to pull quotes from the book, and as I worked on it, I decided I also wanted to take notes on the key concepts and techniques she uses (along with the quoted examples). It ended up taking a little longer than I anticipated, but I now feel like I can put these on a ring, and easily review them without having to constantly pull out the book.
If anyone still wants them, please PM me with email address so I have requests all in one place. I already got PM's from: Mummy2boys Myrtle Schnooky SonshineMama Praise I will try to send them out this weekend. *Edited to update list |
07-18-2008, 05:21 PM | #7 | |||
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
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I always thought to myself that saying "I want" was a nice way to command. I can see how it's better not to say it. I'll try to make a concious effort on this today and maybe try the transistions as well (if I remember), I have a timer now. |
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07-20-2008, 07:01 PM | #8 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
I am I had a baby checkup at the hospital today and I took the kids they were so good! Ketia walked with the pram from the carpark to the hospital (unlike last time when she ran away), and she sat on the seat or on the floor next to the pram while we were waiting for the appointment, I had a packet of chips for them to share, Ata sat in the pram. And we read some books and watched the Pope's plane take off on the TV. And then when I went into the appointment they both played with the toys in the doctors office and then they BOTH packed up when they were told, and we walked calmly back to the car and came home!
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07-20-2008, 07:29 PM | #9 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
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07-20-2008, 08:12 PM | #10 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
Days like that keep you going in during the hard times
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07-21-2008, 04:36 AM | #11 |
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I am the mountain. I am not the storm and the storm is not me. -Ian Cron
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
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07-22-2008, 06:58 AM | #12 |
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Re: ETLDTD Week 3, day 5 -- 7/18/8 (friday and weekend)
I am still around. Oral surgery and pain killers have lost a few days.
I am reading all chapters. I am on Chapter 8. I need to read everything. I will catch up to the normal challenge asap.
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