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08-08-2006, 11:34 AM | #1 |
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ETLDTD - Week 4, Monday-Wednesday
From Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline
Week Four ATTITUDE SHIFT: Harnessing the Power of Unity REASON: To focus on connecting instead of trying to be special DISCIPLINE SKILL: Encouragement VALUE: Interdependence *Take five minutes (or more) daily to "just be" with each of your children. Put aside any agenda, and simply enjoy their company. *Ask yourself in all situations, "do i want to be special or do i want to connect?" or, "do i want to be right or happy?" *Celebrate your successes in changing your behavior. Decide two things you want to accomplish in a day (only two). After you accomplish them, honor yourself by saying, "i did it>" then describe what you did. Encouragement: Honoring your children so they can honor you *Every time your children choose to obey you, celebrate their choice with encouragement. to offer encouragement, do the following: 1. start your sentence with your child's name or one of the following phrases: "look at you," or, "you did it!" 2. describe exactly what you see (or noticed). 3. add a tag, if desired. use one of the following: "that was helpful"; "good job"; "good for you." *Encourage your child every time you see her using the following behaviors: kindness, caring, turn-taking, sharing, cooperation, honesty, staying on task, and any other behavior you value. do this by describing, not judging. for example: "you held the door open for your mother. that was helpful." or, "you worked on your project for about two hours. that took determination."
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Re: ETLDTD - Week 4, Monday-Wednesday
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"i did it! i made it through walmart without assigning negative intent! yay!" (oh never mind, i doubt that one will happen!
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08-08-2006, 09:54 PM | #3 |
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Re: ETLDTD - Week 4, Monday-Wednesday
i like the 5 minutes of just being and want to do that with dh too
one thing i've enjoyed as my kids get older is watching them do this with each other. DD: "look what brother did. he built an amazing tower with the blocks. brother, you did a great job!" Hearing them apply this to each other or even to me and dh makes me want to say it even more to them. these days i'm finding it hard to even accomplish two things myself (morning sickness) maybe i can start off with one "i did it! I got dressed and went out today! Good on me!" |
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