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Old 04-05-2011, 04:16 PM   #1
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Default Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me, book by Samuel Martin

I posted a review on my site of Samuel Martin's book Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me: Christians and the Spanking Controversy: http://www.positivelyfeminine.org/li.../bk/martin.htm . (I'm giving away a free copy, too.)

The book has been a huge revelation to my husband and me. We were very pro-GBD, didn't spank, etc. before, but his examination of the rod verses has given us a firm foundation on which to base all those beliefs. I also feel better equipped to defend them in the face of pro-spanking arguments.
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subbing.. I have never heard of this book before.
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Oh, I have heard great things about that book. I have a few reviews of it on my site.
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I like this book. Stuck on our old computer's hard drive is an e-copy I got free a couple of years ago.
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Default Re: Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me, book by Samuel Martin

note to self...

Buy that book!
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ty! i hadn't heard of this one@!
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Default Re: Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me, book by Samuel Martin

And if anyone ever publishes a review of that book, please let me know and I'll link to it.
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I'll have to get a copy of that one I hadn't heard of him before, but he left a blog comment that I followed over. Looks like a good book!
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You can read it here.

Oh, wait. It looks like he took it down. This site has an excerpt.
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Wahoo! Looks awesome. Totally putting on my to read list, thanks for the heads up!

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Just sent a request for it at my library so they know there is interest!! Would love to get more stuff like this in my local library .
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It is a fantastic book! . I think that anyone who reads it would be convinced that the Bible does not teach spanking. Samuel Martin has written lots of articles as well and is working on more books.
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I agree! It's a great book. I read it a couple of years ago. It's scholarly and takes a little time to get through, but there is so.much.information. He lives in Israel and has access to rabbinic writings that we in the Christian West have never seen.
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