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01-23-2012, 01:12 PM | #16 | |
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01-23-2012, 08:36 PM | #17 |
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Re: Women Living Well Monistries
I think that most people in mainstream america do think of the Duggars as gentle parents. They don't yell, etc, and they seem so close, etc. I have never actually seen them, so I don't know, I am just going by what I have read here, and what friends of mine say.
This blogger seems like just a "normative" mainstream American Christian Stay at home homeschooling mom. This thread feels gossipy to me.
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01-24-2012, 08:51 AM | #18 | |
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01-24-2012, 09:13 AM | #19 | |
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01-24-2012, 09:41 AM | #20 |
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Thank you for explaining. That's why I asked
I think it's a hard and fine line and I do believe we do best to err on the side of being a godly example
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01-24-2012, 09:57 AM | #21 | |
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Edited to Add: I went back and looked around some more. I clicked on a video about 'Learning Submission'. She began by saying that she had received some negative comments on youtube after her last video about submitting to husbands. Then she said (light paraphrasing) that 'if you had a problem with what I said, you are really in disagreement with the Bible and with God, not me' (See the study of The Subtle Power of Spritual Abuse in the Bible Study forum if you don't know why that is a huge red flag) She has clearly put herself in the position of 'teacher' and therefore it is the respnosibility of the reader/listener to discern if her teaching are in accord with the gospel or not.
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01-24-2012, 10:18 AM | #22 |
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Re: Women Living Well Monistries
This is not 'just another mommy blogger' if she is speaking at conferences on the topic of parenting. But speculation on what she MIGHT be saying is just that, speculation. Until someone has actually heard her teaching, and can share what that teaching is, we really can only guess.
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01-25-2012, 09:57 AM | #23 |
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ok..is this the upbeat smiley woman on Youtube??
she came up on a Charlotte Mason search recently.. it bugs me that punitive people use CM. Im going to S/O on this ---------- Post added at 08:57 AM ---------- Previous post was at 08:52 AM ---------- oh yeah ETA: the heart of gossip "to me" is filling peoples heads with ideas and opinions that arent their own regarding a person. like if i've never met Bob..but all you do is let on about how you think he's such a jerk ..then i never got a chance to form my OWN opinion of Bob..im automatically swayed. i'm probably going to have a hard time not seeing him as a jerk when i finally do meet him.. so- if shes publically punitive..then call it out. if nobody here knows..then make an effort to find out before speaking
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01-25-2012, 11:32 AM | #24 |
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Does her blog allow readers to post comments? Maybe some of you ladies who read her blog could invite her to check out GCM? If she's on a journey toward gentle parenting, maybe she'll find some help here.
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01-25-2012, 01:09 PM | #25 |
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To those who may not realize, this is a public forum & she can see anything written about her here.
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01-25-2012, 01:29 PM | #26 |
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I would like to weigh in on this with a heart toward compassion for Courtney (Women Living Well blogger).
It is true that she practices punitive parenting and advocates WOS. She has found her niche in teaching and encouraging women who share similar views on applications of Scripture that support those things. I've known for a long time that she advocates those positions, so I choose not to read her blog, but I have many, many friends who do. I don't know how to say this without offending, but Courtney and my friends who read her and the thousands of women who subscribe to her blog ... they truly believe that they the application of Scripture they adhere to is THE correct way. They are earnestly trying to encourage each other to be the wives and mothers God would have them to be. They have not had, for whatever reason, an epiphany that many of us here have had that would cause them to reconsider what they've always been taught to be truth. It took me YEARS to let go of my attachment to WOS and spanking-as-godly-discipline. When you are raised in that mindset, it is very difficult to untrench (as so many of you here know first hand). Additionally, it is a very lonely place to be when all of your friends practice these things. I am encouraged that Courtney is doing a focus on gentle parenting. I think the best (!!!) thing we can do as a community of women right now is pray that her heart and mind would be open to a non-punitive approach to discipline. She is a teacher with a huge amount of influence, and if God moves in her heart to reconsider spanking, imagine the impact it would have! Though I'm not participating in her challenge, I will be covering her in prayer as it continues, asking God to break down the walls that are preventing her from accepting true gentle discipline that is free from punishment and is focused on grace.
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01-25-2012, 02:13 PM | #27 | |
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But there is a change that happens when someone goes from 'fellow Christian on a Journey' to 'teacher/minister'. Their intention does not change the message and does not remove the teacher from their accountability as such. I do not judge her as a person (nor anyone who follows her - I assume they are all women seeking God), but I am certainly called to discern her teachings. And I might add, she does not extend the same consideration, as apparently my disagreement with her teaching is a 'problem with the Bible and God', so.... ---------- Post added at 04:13 PM ---------- Previous post was at 04:11 PM ---------- Please don't do this. If she comes here, so be it. She would be welcome. But it is a very delicate thing to cross over one board with another and it usually leads to hard feeling and friction rather than understanding.
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01-25-2012, 07:30 PM | #28 | |
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01-25-2012, 07:40 PM | #29 | |
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01-27-2012, 07:38 AM | #30 | |
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As I mentioned might happen, Courtney followed Google back & has read this thread. She clicked thru my siggy link and left me a very sweet message explaining her views.....which are pretty much what was discussed. I asked her permission to post it here, but will not be continuing a back-and-forth for her.
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