I think im gonna throw up....

BeckaBlue · 04-25-2005, 07:01 AM

and maybe cry too

one of the boards im on is doing a questionairre thing. theres one whos always stood out to me, she's always been very different from me, i could tell, just not sure how totally, could tell she was very detatched from her kids, except for breastfeeding, but i jsut couldn't get it. i found out

the question of what has kept you 'sane' raising your kids, for her, it's the book TTUAC (along w/ a couple dobson books). I wanna reply something, but how/what? I really don't think she'd be open at all to gbd, but if i could just get a seed of doubt in there, yk?

Wonder Woman · 04-25-2005, 07:05 AM

MarynMunchkins · 04-25-2005, 07:05 AM

How sad...

Maybe you could ask what she specifically likes about the books, to draw out the logic she's using to defend using these methods on her children. Many people start thinking about what they are doing when you have logical arguments for why is doesn't work or why it is unBiblical.

Micah · 04-25-2005, 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BananaBugTaterTot

Many people start thinking about what they are doing when you have logical arguments for why it is unBiblical.

Just recently BTDT!

04-25-2005, 07:01 AM	#1
BeckaBlue Rose Garden AKA mama2madj Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Grand Rapids, MI Posts: 15,078	I think im gonna throw up.... and maybe cry too one of the boards im on is doing a questionairre thing. theres one whos always stood out to me, she's always been very different from me, i could tell, just not sure how totally, could tell she was very detatched from her kids, except for breastfeeding, but i jsut couldn't get it. i found out the question of what has kept you 'sane' raising your kids, for her, it's the book TTUAC (along w/ a couple dobson books). I wanna reply something, but how/what? I really don't think she'd be open at all to gbd, but if i could just get a seed of doubt in there, yk? __________________ Becka, 30 esFP married to E InTJ mama of 6 fun fantastical kiddos K, 14 ENP A, 11 INJ N, 10 EFJ J, 5.5 ETJ El 10/11 D 1/13 "Against the grain should be a way of life. What's worth the prize is always worth the fight" - Nickelback

04-25-2005, 07:05 AM	#2
Wonder Woman Deactivated Yep. I'm a 3. Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 19,140	Re: I think im gonna throw up....

04-25-2005, 07:05 AM	#3
MarynMunchkins Deactivated Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 38,127	Re: I think im gonna throw up.... How sad... Maybe you could ask what she specifically likes about the books, to draw out the logic she's using to defend using these methods on her children. Many people start thinking about what they are doing when you have logical arguments for why is doesn't work or why it is unBiblical.

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