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08-29-2005, 02:26 PM | #1 |
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Sheparding A Child's Heart
OK I know this has been discussed over and over- but what is wrong with this program? Besides spanking infants and spanking on the bare bottom? Believe me, that is enough for me but my brother is reading it and my church is considering using it. Need some specific stuff- or if there is another thread about this I could look at that- Thanks-
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08-29-2005, 02:42 PM | #2 |
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'spank'em till they're sweet' Tripp talks about sheparding their hearts in the first half of the book but then goes on to say that if after spanking your child, they do not respond with a sweet and pleasant attitude, spank them again. How this relates to changing their hearts is beyond me.
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Elizabeth "Truth without love is divisive and hurtful & love without truth is anemic"--Pastor Estep Arise, cry out in the night...pour out your heart like water in the presence of the Lord; Lift up your hands to him for the lives of your children..; Lamentations 2:19 |
08-29-2005, 02:43 PM | #3 |
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We lost a great discussion on Ted Tripp from the old message board... but here is another that might be helpful... http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv...asp?msg=2706.1
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Also found another useful article (these are all from our article's and resources page, btw) The discussion on Tripp begins a few paragraphs down with the quote below...
http://www.matthiasmedia.com.au/brie..._parenting.htm Quote:
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08-29-2005, 06:36 PM | #5 | |
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08-29-2005, 06:46 PM | #6 |
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He only talks about the "keep spanking until they are sweet" for about 2 paragraphs in the book, so a lot of people miss it, TBH. In the in-person seminar, he talked about it for well over 5 minutes, though, so it stuck with me... when I brought it up on my blog, a bunch of SACH people said they never realized he even said it, it's that brief in the book.
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My husband and I left our church earlier this year because we were unsuccessful in getting a Tripp seminar cancelled. We started trying in June 2004, the seminar was in April 2005. I think people thought if they just ignored us we would quit protesting.
Anyway...here is what we wrote about it: Quote:
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08-30-2005, 07:48 AM | #8 |
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Wow Jenn-
What a thoughtful and informative letter. Would you mind if I printed it out and took your names out but used it? Thanks for sharing. |
08-30-2005, 08:17 AM | #9 |
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Another way of critiquing the book is that he sets up an antagonistic relationship between parent and child. That's not shepherding. If a shepherd is battling with a sheep, that's a pretty stoopit shepherd.
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