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06-18-2016, 03:23 AM | #1 |
Rose Bouquet
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Homeless bags?
I occasionally see homeless people while out shopping or running errands. Not often really- we live in a small rural area but I always try to stop and give them some water and maybe food if I have it and a couple bucks. I was thinking of making up a couple of ziploc gallon baggies of stuff I could give out. I was thinking of putting in a couple bottles of water, some food (pb crackers?), a list of shelters in the area, maybe a small New Testement? Do those sound good? What else could I add?
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06-18-2016, 04:36 AM | #2 |
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Re: Homeless bags?
If you put homeless care package in on Pinterest, there are lots of pins on this subject. I wasn't sure if it was ok to link to one. If you aren't on Pinterest I imagine most of the results would come up in Google. Great idea.
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06-18-2016, 06:53 AM | #3 |
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Re: Homeless bags?
I think socks/underwear and travel size toiletries,including baby wipes, are always a much needed item.Fruit cups and applesauce cups,granola bars,juice box,little cans of V8 juice.There is a ministry called Jax Beach Brothers Keeper that does that on a larger scale if you do FB and want to check them out they have pics of the bags. Of course there is my dds story. She bought takeout lunch one day and saw a guy outside and asked if he would like some lunch and he said he had already had lunch but that the homeless guy over there might appreciate it.
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06-18-2016, 09:33 AM | #4 |
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Re: Homeless bags?
hand sanitizer, antibacterial wipes, toothbrush and toothpaste, gum or mints, hard candies, maybe a pair of knit gloves and knit hat and hand warmers in the winter.
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06-18-2016, 10:21 AM | #5 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeless bags?
In my packages I do crackers, individually wrapped peanut butter. Tuna salad in those shelf stable foil wrappers (even though I'm vegan. ) a fruit and veggie blend juice. A small chocolate. Bottle of water, a couple tea bags. Oh, and granola bar.
I want to add a prepaid public bus ticket, but I haven't figured out how yet. I've *heard* many homeless people are offended be being given hygiene items. So I avoid that in my bags. But it's one of those things where each person is different and you should add in whatever the spirit leads you to include. |
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06-18-2016, 01:34 PM | #6 | |
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Re: Homeless bags?
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Today at the farmer's market there was a woman selling copies of "The Bridge" (a small local newspaper sold by homeless/formerly homeless people here for income), we usually buy them downtown and might have a copy of the one she was carrying but we paid her for two and took one and the twins shared some blueberries with her from the bag they were noshing on as we wandered (as in the kids ate a pint of blueberries as we shopped in maybe a dozen booths ) which she was impressed with since she's seen how much they we enjoying them. We saw her again on our way out and the kids rather randomly talked to her about butterflies (which made her tear up because she told them it was cool they did that because butterflies are really special to her because they symbolize new beginnings and this is a new beginning of her own she is trying to work on) and a butterfly came and landed on the shoulder of the middle boy and flew to the shoulder of the middle girl (and the woman's tears finally came and choked her up). Judging by her smile and the hugs/high fives, I think the kids' interactions meant *way* more to her at that moment than the money did. I suppose that sometimes a weird, sweet kid (or 6) pestering you or gifting you odd unsolicited items is just what you need right when you need it. So I would say if you feel like you should put something in your bags don't fret the logic or practicality of it... the Spirit guides us even when we don't understand. From a practical standpoint, I suppose socks are often useful (winter can layer them for warmth, summer can change/rotate them so the sweat dries out--per a man Cricket struck up conversation with outside the library) and I didn't notice a mention of them above... but I see nothing wrong with your ideas. We try to keep a stash of some shelf stable snacks and water bottles in the car, sometimes they get used by the kids (if we are out shopping too long or to avoid the vending machine at soccer practice) and other times they get passed to homeless people we come across around town, but we figure the additional rotation helps keep the items fresh and worth eating. But a lot of it is fairly spontaneous for us... mostly because I am not an adept planner. |
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06-18-2016, 01:47 PM | #7 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeless bags?
I read somewhere that socks are a commodity that's hard to come by. I suppose that's one of those things that people throw away rather than passing on to Goodwill.
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06-18-2016, 03:04 PM | #8 |
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Re: Homeless bags?
I have a friend who has a street ministry and he recommends chewy or soft granola bars because many of the people he serves are missing teeth and the crunchy bars are hard to chew. This might be a consideration when choosing crackers, too. Buttery crackers would be easier to bite than rice crackers, for example.
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06-18-2016, 04:18 PM | #9 | |
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Re: Homeless bags?
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06-20-2016, 03:05 AM | #10 |
Rose Trellis
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Re: Homeless bags?
Such great ideas on this thread! I love it.
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06-20-2016, 05:42 AM | #11 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeless bags?
I would encourage all to check out the Jax Brothers Keeper site on FB.He had some wonderful footge yesterday of Him with his young son doing a breakfast feeding patrol on Fathers day morning
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06-20-2016, 06:44 PM | #12 |
Rose Bouquet
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Re: Homeless bags?
What a great project!
We did something a bit like this with some other homeschooling families. Here, in Colorado, many people who are homeless cannot stay in the shelters as they are also substance abusers. So, I ended up revising out baggie kits to give information about who to call to get picked up in the case where someone with use/addiction was ready for help. A few people ended up giving us feedback on the kits as they joined a program where they sleep in our church. The toothbrushes/toothpaste were super appreciated. I'd encourage anyone to do as the Spirit moves them. I have noticed that in the 15 years that we've helped out at the mission in town and in the 3 years that families have slept in our church, most people don't seem receptive to spirituality, to Jesus, but they are generally tolerant of a blessing before a meal together. This has surprised me, but it doesn't daunt me. Maybe others have had a very different experience? I'd love to hear about it. peace, tessiemae |
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06-20-2016, 07:15 PM | #13 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeless bags?
As others have said, socks. Cuz you can't do laundry very often and you can often get pants and shirts from places but never socks and underware and they get gross after a few days so you throw them out.
Bottled water is nice.
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06-21-2016, 06:35 PM | #14 |
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Re: Homeless bags?
Oh Tessiemae I wish our state had that kind of help available
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06-22-2016, 05:34 AM | #15 |
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Re: Homeless bags?
I'd include little packets of wet wipes, feminine hygiene products for ladies, a disposable razor, toothbrush and toothpaste, and those little flossy things that have a pick on the end, individual sachets of washing powder and some coins for a laundry, woollen socks, first aid kit, including band aids for blisters and paracetamol, dried fruit and nuts, shelf stable cheese, a tin of tuna that has a ring pull opening, a fruit cup, and some plastic cutlery.
I'd put each item in a ziplock bag, so food didn't get contaminated by soapy products.
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