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Old 03-01-2010, 04:35 PM   #1
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Default A conservative pastor speaks out against the Pearls

This is so encouraging. He hits it out of the park:

http://somberanddull.blogspot.com/20...and-death.html
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Old 03-01-2010, 04:54 PM   #2
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Default Re: A conservative pastor speaks out against the Pearls

He did good...but we still need more.
If I had a blog spot I'd certainly put something up...but sadly I don't.
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Old 03-01-2010, 04:59 PM   #3
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That was excellent

I have a blog, but no followeres Hopefully this will get "out there" too!
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Old 03-01-2010, 05:14 PM   #4
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Default Re: A conservative pastor speaks out against the Pearls

This:
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If you are a follower of Christ, weep not only for the children, but for the honor and reputation of Christ.
This resonates with me so very strongly. Of course I am heartbroken for the children who are the victims but it also breaks my heart that this sort of cruelty is put for as representative of our Savior. Lives have been lost, yes, but how many more souls are being lost because of this?
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Old 03-01-2010, 05:54 PM   #5
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subbing to come back to later.
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Old 03-01-2010, 06:37 PM   #6
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very well written and thought provoking. I especially liked
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I also learned that my baser nature made me an untrustworthy bearer of the rod.
I have no friends who follow the Pearls approach,I doubt if any non GCM facebook friends/blog readers have ever heard of them, so I haven't been reposting any of this stuff, but I have been bookmarking it in case I ever need it!
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Default Re: A conservative pastor speaks out against the Pearls

Just curious...what is it about him or his church that makes you call him "conservative"? I actually feel he is just the opposite, so I'm curious.
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Sorry--I labelled him that way since he is in the PCA denomination which is doctrinally conservative.
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You're welcome, Tasha! back at ya!

He also identifies himself as "generally" an economic and social conservative.
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Thanks...the topic of interpretation is one that some of my more theologically minded friends are familiar with so hopefully that will raise the flag for them on the topic.
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That was excellent

I have a blog, but no followeres Hopefully this will get "out there" too!
You know, if you post something, people might link to you and you might get some followers.

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When held up side-by-side with the liberal world views or even views from the more liberal churches, Pearl would be considered conservative. But to most of us in a conservative denomination, Pearl is considered ultra conservative in his thoughts and religion. How far a person is to the left or right is determined what we deem to be middle road.
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