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04-11-2006, 09:01 PM | #1 |
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Can Someone Tell Me A Bit About
Ted Tripp?
I was skimming through his book, Shepherding a Child's Heart (I think), when I was at the bookstore today. My first instinct was to buy it, tear it up right there, then throw it in the garbage at the store and tell them it was only good as garbage. As I was looking through his book, he was saying that he was not advocating punitive punishments as that was abusive. But then he was listing the traditional Bible verses that people use to jusitfy spanking. (Namely, if you don't beat your child, he will die.) It didn't seem too bad on the surface, but the icky feeling just wouldn't go away. Does his definition of punitive not match up with mine? In the end, I did not buy it to rip it up. I didn't feel like wasting the money.
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04-11-2006, 09:07 PM | #2 |
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Re: Can Someone Tell Me A Bit About
He *is* punitive. He does talk about spanking. . the when, where's, and how's of it. I have the book. . . .
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04-12-2006, 06:57 AM | #3 |
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Re: Can Someone Tell Me A Bit About
The phrase I always think of with Tripp is 'spank them til they're sweet'. He also talks a lot about reaching your child's heart, but then says there is a 'heart-bottom' connection.
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Elizabeth "Truth without love is divisive and hurtful & love without truth is anemic"--Pastor Estep Arise, cry out in the night...pour out your heart like water in the presence of the Lord; Lift up your hands to him for the lives of your children..; Lamentations 2:19 |
04-12-2006, 10:16 AM | #4 |
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Re: Can Someone Tell Me A Bit About
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh. Thanks, ladies. I should have gone with my gut and bought it and ripped it up.
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"People are going to feel sorry for you. They'll tell you that you can't anticipate the unthinkable. The fact is you can. It's just not all that pleasant." - House But it's hard living life on this memory-go-round. Always up, always down. Spinning 'round and 'round and 'round. All this could be just a dream so it seems I was never much good at goodbye. |
04-12-2006, 09:33 PM | #5 | |
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