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Old 11-13-2005, 11:04 PM   #31
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Default Re: The Pearl's "Good stuff"

wow that was deep....I will have to go back and reread..hehe..

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What I am getting out of the Pearl stuff posted (and what I remember, i think) is that you must appear to be happy and healthy even if you aren't...and then it will just happen?? Do this and you will get this in result...

I don't know...turns my stomach. I grew up my entire life not being allowed to express my opinions or feelings on things. (what Pearl is teaching)..it didn't help me at all with life. i still struggle to this day with expressing myself openly and honestly (in person anyway..lol)...darned if I will do that to my kids. I had to laugh the other day when my mom told me I needed to let the kids express their feelings...hehe...like she did me?

sorry off my rant....
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Old 11-25-2005, 09:22 PM   #32
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Default Re: The Pearl's "Good stuff"

One of my friends on another board has a good analogy that springs to mind ... if someone made you some brownies but put just a liiiiiiitle bit of dog poop in them, would you eat them? Of course not! I think the same way about the Pearls. The "brownie" part of what they say may look just fine, but the dog poop spoils the whole batch.
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Old 11-26-2005, 07:37 PM   #33
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Only the Pearls have offered up a big pile of dog poo with a chunk of brownie in it and hope the scent will fool you
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