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Old 03-03-2010, 11:47 AM   #16
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Default Re: NEW Pearl Statement. Gag.

So he beats his animals too?! Wait till someone sics PETA on him...
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Old 03-03-2010, 11:48 AM   #17
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The last bit about the chickens...
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Old 03-03-2010, 11:49 AM   #18
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Old 03-03-2010, 11:49 AM   #19
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Default Re: NEW Pearl Statement. Gag.

you know what? what bothers me, is that even IF his methods were ok... that kind of response... i don't even have words. an intelligent person, when met with concerns and critics, makes an effort to answers those concerns and critics intelligently.. NOT laugh in their faces.
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Does someone have his address? He needs to be reported.
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I wish a newspaper would print that...it truly shows who he is
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This statement shows how much the Pearls care about the children and parents they minister to.
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I just emailed PETA. They have the kind of publicity to really rile people up.
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Does he not even care that a child has DIED?
How can anyone possible laugh about this?
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His arrogance is maddening.
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you know what? what bothers me, is that even IF his methods were ok... that kind of response... i don't even have words. an intelligent person, when met with concerns and critics, makes an effort to answers those concerns and critics intelligently.. NOT laugh in their faces.
Yeah. Especially when the death of a child is involved.
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Default Re: NEW Pearl Statement. Gag.

Creepy. That's about the maturity level of "I fart in your general direction!"

And, by the way, Africa is not a country. Is that the kind of homeschooling error he advocates "chastisement" for?
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Default Re: NEW Pearl Statement. Gag.

It doesn't seem like he's responding to the Schatz case at all, rather that he's just responding to the naysayers.

Either way, I'm not fond of how he chooses to do it.
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Default Re: NEW Pearl Statement. Gag.

I wonder how would one go about initiating the process of church discipline on this matter?

I think he's trying to be insulting, but it just comes off as a little unbalanced. Maybe I'm too quick to extend grace to my fellow man, but I really can't be insulted if I tried. I guess I should be insulted at laughing at suffering, but he's not being clear enough for me to be anything but confused. I think he has some kind of assumptions about traits (jealousy?) his critics may have that would have to be true before someone could be insulted. Maybe his followers get it a little better, but they'd have to know what those underlying assumptions are first, too.
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