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07-30-2007, 09:39 AM | #1 |
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Gangbangers and Gluesticks
I had a facinating conversation this weekend, that I thought might interest y'all.
Unfortunately, we live down the street from a gang hangout. Saturday, I was playing in the front yard with Turkey, and a group of guys were having a loud discussion in front of the gang house. I was tuning them out for the most part, when I heard the phrase, "gluestick trick". Well, for the millionth time in my life, curiosity killed the cat, and I boxed up my courage and walked across the street. "Hi!" says the little white housewife. "Hey!" say the thugs. "Hey, can I ask you guys a question?" "Um, sure?" "I heard you talking about a 'gluestick trick' - what do you mean by that?" They all look at each other, hem and haw a little, then one says, "Well, you wanna *mess* somebody up pretty bad, you hit them with your fist, they go to the cops, they're all bruised up, right? You take a gluestick, like for a glue gun, you use that, it *messes* your boy up right, but there's not a mark on them! It's like magic or something, they don't leave a single bruise, but it hurts like a [non-repeatable] and it can tear into the muscle and *stuff*." Another guy at this point asks me why I want to know, "Your man getting rough on you or something?" and laughs - I said no, I knew of people that spanked their kids with them, and that whole group of nine or ten hard-core tattooed thugs who had been laughing and talking while this was going on, went dead silent. I got a whole round of these: and finally one said, "If my baby's mama ever took a glue stick to him, she would never see him again. That is *messed* up." Pretty interesting? Perhaps we should enlighten the "glue-stick spankers" that they are using a gang form of abuse and torture - wouldn't that be "conforming to the world"? Interesting that even these boys see something inherently wrong in hitting a child with one.
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07-30-2007, 09:43 AM | #2 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
Wow, bliss!! :/ I'm going to file that story away. Interesting how you can find wisdom and gentleness in the most unlikely places, isn't it?
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07-30-2007, 09:43 AM | #3 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
wow
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07-30-2007, 09:44 AM | #4 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
wow...just wow
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07-30-2007, 09:47 AM | #5 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
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07-30-2007, 09:49 AM | #6 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
Wow......
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07-30-2007, 10:15 AM | #7 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
another wow!
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07-30-2007, 10:22 AM | #8 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
Wow.
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07-30-2007, 10:23 AM | #9 |
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07-30-2007, 10:23 AM | #10 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
Oh my.... ....all those poor babies...
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07-30-2007, 10:26 AM | #11 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
I would like to say something different, just for the sake of being a little different....but all i can think of is....
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07-30-2007, 10:39 AM | #12 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
bliss have i ever told you that i think you are the coolest little white housewife in the world
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07-30-2007, 11:36 AM | #13 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
awww.....thanks
I wondered the same thing.
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
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And yeah---wow. |
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07-30-2007, 11:50 AM | #15 |
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Re: Gangbangers and Gluesticks
wow... you are brave!! Who on earth would spank their kids with a glue stick of all things?????
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