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Old 07-22-2010, 12:36 AM   #1
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Default What Should I Have Done?

The kids like to go to a fast food joint that offers free video games. We normally go at the dead hour in midafternoon, but this time we went during the lunch rush. Sophia was hogging a machine. I asked her to get up and give Eva a turn because we were leaving in 10 minutes. As soon as Sophia got up another boy sat down, so I said, "Excuse me, I asked my older daughter to get up so my younger daughter could have a turn, it's her turn now." I had to repeat myself a couple of times, "Please excuse me, I'm sorry, but it's Eva's turn." So his dad, who had been on the phone, told me that I should have interrupted his phone call and I was not to speak to someone else's child like that.

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Old 07-22-2010, 12:40 AM   #2
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Dad should have been watching his kid. You did fine.
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Old 07-22-2010, 04:28 AM   #4
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Dad should have been watching his kid. You did fine.
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Old 07-22-2010, 08:32 AM   #5
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oh man. that would have me so irritated for DAYS .i think you did fine too.
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Old 07-22-2010, 12:13 PM   #6
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Default Re: What Should I Have Done?

I would have done what you did too. I'm a big ole' mama bear about that kind of thing.

To him, I would have said, "Sir, I don't interrupt strangers on phones, but I do keep my kids from getting pushed around."
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I think you did fine, too. You weren't disciplining him or yelling at him; you were just telling him it wasn't his turn yet. And if the dad wasn't there to tell him, someone had to tell the kid.
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you didn't yell at the kid, you just told him he was mistaken. If Dad wasn't paying attn too bad. You did just fine.
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