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02-20-2015, 08:54 AM | #16 |
Rose Garden
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
I don't like any of the titles. I'd love to find a better term. It's an important job. My family would be hungry and dirty if I did nothing
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02-20-2015, 09:02 AM | #17 | |
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02-20-2015, 09:23 AM | #18 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
Under occupation on my facebook I have "domestic engineer" I think it's pretty fitting.
When people ask me what I do I say "home school and keep all the people alive" that takes some skill: domestic engineer!
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02-20-2015, 10:24 AM | #19 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
I love both homemaker and "keeper of the home/keeper at home" although the latter is a mouthful.
A house is just a house. I lived in lots of different apartments and houses before I got married. Even when I was in between jobs or during breaks from school, I wasn't a homemaker. It was just a roof over my head and a place to keep my stuff. For me, a homemaker ties it all together to keep the heart of the family thriving. Certainly, my husband contributes, but it is the longing of my heart that each member of my family feel warm inside when they know they are going home. "Be it ever so humble, there is no place like home." |
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02-20-2015, 10:56 AM | #20 | |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
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02-20-2015, 12:26 PM | #21 | ||
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02-20-2015, 01:30 PM | #22 | |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
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I like "domestic goddess".
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02-20-2015, 01:44 PM | #23 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
I love the term homemaker. . I cant even say SAHM, about myself, it feels empty to me and in my head refers to something that I am not.
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02-20-2015, 01:53 PM | #24 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
Homemaking arts are a bit lost at this point. I took classes in school to acquire some skill, and have gleaned some from my grandmother, my mother in law, and basic life as a mother and wife, but there's no way I could do as much as was listed in that paragraph above. I spend a lot of my day lying down exhausted and trying to figure out what to do next.
My mom was a computer engineer. I grew up on lucky charms and beanie weenie and daycare snacks (saltines. Lots of saltines). I was always fascinated by these moms who spent their days cooking and sewing and cleaning because it was so far removed from my own home experience. I joke that I once told my mom I wanted to grow up and be a teacher and she said I wouldn't make very much money doing that, so now I homeschool instead I really showed her! (she is totally supportive of my life choices btw!)
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02-20-2015, 02:18 PM | #25 |
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02-20-2015, 02:26 PM | #26 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
I theorize that when one could boot the kids out into the neighborhood to play all day, one could accomplish gobs more domestic things...
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02-20-2015, 02:56 PM | #27 | |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
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I remember being 8 and taking SIL who was 3 over to my house (about 2 blocks away) by myself. Or being 7 and having BIL and SIL (1 and 2) out in the driveway while MIL was inside doing stuff. It wasn't a busy street at all and I kept an eye on them. It was even more lax 50 years ago. Even in other countries they are so much more laid back. I had a friend from well not eastern Europe But east of Italy who had CPS threatened on her because she'd let the kids do stuff American Mother's wouldn't dream of allowing. And when you stepped back it really wasn't that bad. My Mom cooked every thing from scratch for 7 people, homeschooled 5 kids, and sewed and knitted like crazy- becasue she enjoyed it. She was alwasy cleaning- but she had key areas that she cared about and kept on top of but things like dishes were always a disaster. you CAN'T do it all, all the time...But you can pick the things you care about and do them well.
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02-20-2015, 03:14 PM | #28 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
My gramma definitely believed in outside time for kids. We were outside playing nearly every day. My Grampa built us a skating rink in the back yard which gave us something to do in the winter. My gramma kept us busy but she didn't entertain us. She often had some kind of craft for us to do. She wasn't trying to just get rid of us though. She didn't like for me to stay in my room and read. She always wanted us playing. If you dared say you were bored you got chores.
Our neighbor did tell me once that she doesn't understand mothers these days that let their toddlers run free. She made lots of use of a playpen. Toys would not have been strewn around the house because toddlers didn't play that way. Not sure if my gramma used one but it wouldn't surprise me. |
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02-20-2015, 03:58 PM | #29 |
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02-20-2015, 04:05 PM | #30 |
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Re: When did homemaker change to stay-at-home-mom?
I asked dh if he preferred homemaker or sahd. He said, " well I'm not a builder or carpenter... " . So I read him the definition of home maker from that article but he still wasn't interested in being called a homemaker (he isn't currently a sahd, but wet both share the work and parenting atm, and he has been sahd in the past)
My fb page says I'm "personal assistant and trainer" to ds1 (never got around to adding the others)
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