A Spanking Paddle - Page 2

Six Little Feet · 08-10-2006, 02:42 PM

And the picture of him and his son and the paddle...his son looks well detached (I wonder why)

edited to fix a typo, that was rather funny...

apmommy · 08-10-2006, 03:41 PM

Too sick for words

Mamatoto · 08-10-2006, 05:38 PM

We had a couple of those in my house growing up.

Sick man.

Joyful Melissa · 08-11-2006, 12:42 PM

How sad!

Do you see how big and thick those things are??!! I couldn't imagine a child being whacked with one of those. I can't believe those appointment slips either, arghhh!

Beauty4Ashes · 08-11-2006, 12:51 PM

It looks like a paint stirrer. I cannot imagine using one on a teenager.

08-11-2006, 01:54 PM

If we know the general location, this one would be one to call CPS on. . . .. ..

Or, bring it to someone's attention, somehow. . .. "red flag" it, like they do the other icky sites. . ..

Kyasmom · 08-11-2006, 03:49 PM

Sick....

canadiyank · 08-11-2006, 03:51 PM

My friend's family had one of these growing up, on which was inscribed, "I Love You."

UltraMother · 08-11-2006, 04:51 PM

Quote:

A single swat has more influence than a thousand threats.

Actually, I agree. But a single swat is not necessary. Get off your butt and make your words mean something, rather than threatening a thousand times.

Quote:

If you have a paddle you must be prepared to use it without anger and with respect.

How can paddling be respectful?

TulipMama · 08-11-2006, 06:25 PM

Quote:

How can paddling be respectful?

*nods* Since we stopped spanking, I've been able to see how--even though I dearly loved my children and was motivated by that love, however misguided--spanking was NEVER respectful.

Teacher Mom · 08-11-2006, 08:12 PM

My father got angry with me when I was 16 years old. Got out the saw and plywood and cut a paddle pretty close to that shape. Then he drilled holes in it, made me sand so I wouldn't get a splinter and proceeded to beat me with it. The entire process was long. He had plenty of time to think and know what he was doing. It hurt me so bad to sit at school the next several days. I was completely black and blue with nice circles from the holes. Told me I needed an attitude ajustment. It was the beginning of my rebellion. It pushed me over the edge. After that, I really felt, what more could they do to me? It's a passive aggressive nightmare. They make you connect love with punishment.

He still will tell you he did it because he loved me. It's so hard for me to grasp this idea even to this day.

Okay, I am crying at the little girl who had no voice or opinion back then. Thank goodness I have a husband that does not believe in spanking. Maybe that's how people did it years ago, but now we know better.

And the boy in the picture....yeah, that's how I would have looked to...."please don't make me stand here with you".

So sad indeed.

canadiyank · 08-11-2006, 11:03 PM

Teacher Mom -

joyful mama · 08-12-2006, 06:06 AM

Marrae · 08-12-2006, 06:51 AM

How

.
I am glad that is illegal here, whatever other problems we may have. (UK)
I was tempted to leave a comment, may still do, but I don't think he even responds to them.

Aisling · 08-12-2006, 06:56 AM

I'm totally creeped out by the fact that the paddle says, "Love Joey".

Sick.

08-10-2006, 02:42 PM	#16
Six Little Feet Rose Garden one who loves coffee Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: where I wait for SPRING!!!! Posts: 14,197	Re: A Spanking Paddle And the picture of him and his son and the paddle...his son looks well detached (I wonder why) edited to fix a typo, that was rather funny... __________________ Sheryl mom of three young feminists Pumpkin 2001-Midge 2005-Cookie 2007 “I know, up on top you are seeing great sights, but down here at the bottom we, too, should have rights.” ― Dr. Seuss, Yertle the Turtle and Gertrude McFuzz

08-10-2006, 03:41 PM	#17
apmommy Rose Garden Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 5,976	Re: A Spanking Paddle Too sick for words __________________ One Fabulous Mama

08-10-2006, 05:38 PM	#18
Mamatoto Deactivated Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 5,871	Re: A Spanking Paddle We had a couple of those in my house growing up. Sick man.

08-11-2006, 12:42 PM	#19
Joyful Melissa Climbing Rose Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,042	Re: A Spanking Paddle How sad! Do you see how big and thick those things are??!! I couldn't imagine a child being whacked with one of those. I can't believe those appointment slips either, arghhh! __________________ Wife to Loving DH since 8/18/96 Mama to DD-Kayda 14 DD-Chickadee 12-Juv. Type 1 Diabetes & Hypothyroid DS-Poozle 8-Learning to live with JRA & SPD DS-QBear 12- Autistic Pre-adoptive DS-C 11- ADHD A person's a person, no matter how small. Dr. Suess

08-11-2006, 12:51 PM	#20
Beauty4Ashes Rose Garden Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 13,095	Re: A Spanking Paddle It looks like a paint stirrer. I cannot imagine using one on a teenager. __________________ Tammy--ISTJ wife to AbuBa(6/2001) mom to B (6/2004) D (6/2005) L 4/2008 R 9/2015 Isaiah 61:3 To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that they might be glorified.

08-11-2006, 01:54 PM	#21
Chris3jam Guest Posts: n/a	Re: A Spanking Paddle If we know the general location, this one would be one to call CPS on. . . .. .. Or, bring it to someone's attention, somehow. . .. "red flag" it, like they do the other icky sites. . ..

08-11-2006, 03:49 PM	#22
Kyasmom Rose Trellis Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 1,566	Re: A Spanking Paddle Sick.... __________________ ~Tracy Wife to DH for 10 years Mama to 6 year old Rae , 4 year old Gator, 2 year old Zuzu bee, And brand new Tater Tot

08-11-2006, 03:51 PM	#23
canadiyank Deactivated Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central WA Posts: 17,196	Re: A Spanking Paddle My friend's family had one of these growing up, on which was inscribed, "I Love You."

08-11-2006, 08:12 PM	#26
Teacher Mom Rose Garden Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Twilight Zone Posts: 13,772	Re: A Spanking Paddle My father got angry with me when I was 16 years old. Got out the saw and plywood and cut a paddle pretty close to that shape. Then he drilled holes in it, made me sand so I wouldn't get a splinter and proceeded to beat me with it. The entire process was long. He had plenty of time to think and know what he was doing. It hurt me so bad to sit at school the next several days. I was completely black and blue with nice circles from the holes. Told me I needed an attitude ajustment. It was the beginning of my rebellion. It pushed me over the edge. After that, I really felt, what more could they do to me? It's a passive aggressive nightmare. They make you connect love with punishment. He still will tell you he did it because he loved me. It's so hard for me to grasp this idea even to this day. Okay, I am crying at the little girl who had no voice or opinion back then. Thank goodness I have a husband that does not believe in spanking. Maybe that's how people did it years ago, but now we know better. And the boy in the picture....yeah, that's how I would have looked to...."please don't make me stand here with you". So sad indeed. __________________

08-11-2006, 11:03 PM	#27
canadiyank Deactivated Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central WA Posts: 17,196	Re: A Spanking Paddle Teacher Mom -

08-12-2006, 06:06 AM	#28
joyful mama Rose Garden Word of God speak... Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 18,661	Re: A Spanking Paddle __________________ Jen Married to my knight in shining armor Work-in-progress mother to my three awesome kids: S (8), T (6) and the Little Guy (3) ...and always remembering our little angel

08-12-2006, 06:51 AM	#29
Marrae Moderator in Tweens & Teens, Teens & Beyond, the Cookbook, Let's Talk, Drawing Closer, and Bible Study The presence of the Holy Spirit is the keystone of all our hopes Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: U K Posts: 10,647	Re: A Spanking Paddle How . I am glad that is illegal here, whatever other problems we may have. (UK) I was tempted to leave a comment, may still do, but I don't think he even responds to them. __________________ **~ Ruth * ~*** wife (dh A, ~ 33 ~ years) mother (dd G 29, ds D 25) And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8 : 28

08-12-2006, 06:56 AM	#30
Aisling Deactivated Even artichokes have hearts! Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 33,230	Re: A Spanking Paddle I'm totally creeped out by the fact that the paddle says, "Love Joey". Sick.

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