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09-28-2011, 02:17 PM | #31 |
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Re: Has anyone heard about this book?
I'm probably 2/3 through. I think on the whole it's excellent. The chapter on spanking feels very incongruent. Honestly, it's like it's just this huge blind spot. It just doesn't *fit* with the rest of what she's saying. So yeah, that part is frustrating, but you have to read with a filter on for every single book you pick up--some more than others.
I am a bit disappointed because it's *almost*, but not quite, the book I was hoping for (the TulipGirl link above pretty well sums it up). Still, I think the good outweighs the bad. It's the sort of book that my uber-punitive friend would actually be willing to read (because she'd never touch a book that opposed spanking) and there is a lot in there that would help bring her in a more GBD direction, I think. Just my so far. I realize I am coming from a different place theologically than the majority view around here, so YMMV.
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09-28-2011, 05:51 PM | #32 | |
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09-28-2011, 07:07 PM | #33 |
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Re: Has anyone heard about this book?
Oh no . . . Paul David Tripp is Tedd Tripp's brother? The same Paul Tripp who did "What Did you Expect?" I really liked that marriage series. I thought it all also could be applied to our relationship with children too.
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09-28-2011, 10:11 PM | #34 |
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Re: Has anyone heard about this book?
Yes, that's (sadly) very true....
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09-29-2011, 05:17 AM | #35 |
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Re: Has anyone heard about this book?
Yes, they are brothers - and there is a *lot* of true and helpful material in their books. Do I agree with everything they say about children and parenting? Definitely not. But quite honestly, I don't think it's fair to lump Tedd Tripp in with Ezzo and Pearl. I can understand if particularly sensitive people have to avoid SACH altogether because of the spanking stuff, but when I read SACH, I found MUCH in there to really appreciate (and found the spanking stuff to be similarly incongruent there, though not as obviously as with GTG). I just don't think Tripp is in the same league as Ezzo and Pearl.
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09-29-2011, 05:34 AM | #36 | |
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09-29-2011, 06:27 AM | #37 | |
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09-29-2011, 07:17 AM | #38 | |
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09-29-2011, 10:59 AM | #39 | |
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As for me, there are few books I recommend without disclaimer and having thought about it first, so I understand that approach.
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09-29-2011, 11:22 AM | #40 |
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Re: Has anyone heard about this book?
One aspect I consider with these sorts of books is whether the author presents his or her material in a manipulative manner or makes a straightforward argument, showing their work (like we had to do on math class homework) so readers can evaluate the basis of the argument. Authors like Ezzo make a highly manipulative presentation. Authors like Clay Clarkson (for example) show their work. Readers can choose to agree or disagree with his exegesis, for instance, because he shows exactly how he arrived at it.
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09-29-2011, 11:27 AM | #41 |
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Re: Has anyone heard about this book?
speaking of Clay Clarkson - I thought he was doing a rewrite of Heartfelt Discipline. WHEN is that ever going to be available???
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