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Old 06-01-2006, 02:32 PM   #1
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Default Radio talk show with Candace Cameron BURE

There is a segment about child rearing on this radio show and she is telling everyone how great and wonderful the pearls are How can anyone think the pearls are great and awesome???

http://www.drewmarshall.ca/listen2006.html#060204

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Old 06-01-2006, 04:27 PM   #2
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That disappoints me greatly. I like her & I really like Kirk Cameron. I hope that he doesn't have the same parenting philosophies.
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Old 06-01-2006, 04:33 PM   #3
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I just listened to it. She said Debi and Michael Pearl... they are incredible. She has a website with a contact candace button....
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Old 06-01-2006, 04:45 PM   #4
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She has a website with a contact candace button....
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This is truly disappointing ... this is not the ringing endorsement Christians need, to give the impression that this type of discipline is used by all Christians.
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Old 06-01-2006, 04:58 PM   #5
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didnt kirk cameron help write some book with a paddle in it or am I totally way off base
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Old 06-01-2006, 05:08 PM   #6
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http://www.afajournal.org/2005/may/5. 05adoption.asp

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One such book that Kirk and Chelsea use as a parenting tool second to the Bible is titled Shepherding A Child’s Heart by Ted Tripp.

"It lifts the wisdom of parenting out of the Bible and is the most amazing tool about godly parenting, godly discipline, getting to the heart of a child and not the behavior, [and] teaching the heart of your child….," Chelsea explained. "I want a child whose heart understands their need for God and understands God’s ways."

Therefore, she and Kirk run a tight ship when it comes to the structure and function of their family. But this tight ship sails on a sea of unconditional love as seen through prayer time, family devotions, family hikes, beach trips, free-for-alls in the yard, times of jubilant worship through dancing and singing, and Sunday visits with Grandma.
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Old 06-01-2006, 06:11 PM   #8
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On Candace Cameron's website, she says that she likes a book by the Pearls and the one by the Tripps.

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That disappoints me greatly. I like her & I really like Kirk Cameron. I hope that he doesn't have the same parenting philosophies.
I'm not really surprised about this. Really, from all I've heard Kirk did a pendulum swing--from the Hollywood lifestyle to being EXTREMELY conservative in his Christianity.

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That disappoints me greatly. I like her & I really like Kirk Cameron. I hope that he doesn't have the same parenting philosophies.
I'm not really surprised about this. Really, from all I've heard Kirk did a pendulum swing--from the Hollywood lifestyle to being EXTREMELY conservative in his Christianity.

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Yep. I watched the "E-true hollywood story: growing pains" and apparently when he became a Christian, it sounds like he became pretty obnoxious toward the entire cast and crew about lifestyles, how the show was written.
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Old 06-02-2006, 06:39 AM   #11
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I get such a kick out of Kirk Cameron's story - it's kind of typical of a new Christian to get kind of obnoxious about it...and fun to hear him and the cast discuss it now many years later. Too bad he likes the Tripps
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This makes me sad I was watching an old episode of Growing Pains the other day and I wondered about them. So sad
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Why are so many conservative Christians so punitive? And so many think they have to spank to be a good Christian parent.
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Why are so many conservative Christians so punitive? And so many think they have to spank to be a good Christian parent.
I ask myself that every day I was reading an article in Parents that compared different parenting experts. I thought it was ironic that Dr. Dobson, which is the one that just screams Christian to people, seemed to have the most hurtful advice
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Actually I heard my favourite talk show host on the christian station in Sydney endorse Babywise this morning actaully am going to email him about it and find that link about the damage ezzo does and send it to him
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