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Old 07-05-2018, 03:05 PM   #1
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WQy...ature=youtu.be

This was posted on a friend's facebook page. It's an hour long but well worth the watch. Actual video of Pearl. (spoiler, if your husband is physcially abusing your kids, he needs more sex)
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Thanks we'll see when I can find time to post this. I'm going to include a brief table of contents, so people can jump to certain parts.

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I am happy to see it clearly labled as a cult.

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I finally finished the blog post. It is such a long video, that I felt the need to annotate it.
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I understand how the Pearls teaching is completely off. Iíve never liked their stuff or prescribed to it at all. But how is the Duggars and Gothards teaching at all similar? Iím going to try and watch this when I have time soon. Also did this happen to you or are you just posting it here?
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But how is the Duggars and Gothards teaching at all similar? Iím going to try and watch this when I have time soon.
Gothard teaches many of the same things as Tedd Tripp. And some things that are even worse.

The Duggars are followers of Gothard. (or they were, don't know what they're doing now.)

https://www. biblicalresearchreports.com/bill-gothard-biggest-conservative-fraud-modern-times/

Remove the space between www. and biblical

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/micah...b_5228166.html

https:// micahjmurray.com/bill-gothard-homeschool-cult/

Remove the space right before micah

https://www.theguardian.com/commenti...y-unbelievable
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We posted it here last July, when we found out about it. Do watch it, it's quite eye opening.

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