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Old 10-12-2005, 05:25 AM   #1
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Default Thank goodness for my brother's gf!

Monday, I was at my father's funeral. My 2-year-old nephew, Christian, was being whiny and fussy -- not surprising, since it was a three-and-a-half-hour drive for them, and he was around a lot of new people. My brother said, "Why don't you just spank him or something?" His girlfriend (Christian's mom) snapped, "Oh, THAT will help things!" I was so proud of her! They are both just 21, and while my brother struggles a bit with being a dad, Lynn is an awesome mom.
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Old 10-12-2005, 05:34 AM   #2
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Way to go gf! It always amazes me when people spank their children thinking that that will make them quieter. Hopefully your brother will learn from his gf.
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Old 10-12-2005, 07:18 PM   #3
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Sounds like she knows what she's doing!
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Old 10-12-2005, 11:30 PM   #4
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Just wanted to say sorry about your father
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Old 10-13-2005, 07:20 AM   #5
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Default Re: Thank goodness for my brother's gf!

That must have been wonderful to have that little bonding moment on that issue.

I'm so sorry--I didn't know about your dad. Grace and peace and comfort to you. I lost my dad this year, it's such a big empty feeling.
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