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Old 03-24-2010, 08:40 AM   #61
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Default Re: Is "Above Rubies" gothardism/quiverful?

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Why did you say that then if you weren't saying that the ministry appears perfect, therefore there must be something sinister? You may not have used the word sinister for Nancy, but it seems really clear that you think very bad things of her.
erin has gone above and beyond to give facts as to why she has issue with nancy. i'm not sure why anyone would question that. i'm horrified by what has been said to erin by nancy and i hope no one here would defend it.
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Why did you say that then if you weren't saying that the ministry appears perfect, therefore there must be something sinister? You may not have used the word sinister for Nancy, but it seems really clear that you think very bad things of her.
You are projecting my sincere and passionate disagreement with her ideology with me having very ill feelings toward her person I can passionately disagree with someone, think they are members of a cult, and subscribe and teach false teaching, and really like them as a person. I think from the times that I've seen her and interacted with her that she is gentle and kind. I think she is coming from a place of being very sincere in her beliefs and following of God as she understands him.
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I did not call anybody sinister. Nor did I say this ministry was sinister. That is a twisting of words and a drastic misquote. Please do not do that.

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I apologize, it was calling the "ministry" sinister, doesn't make much difference to me, it was still using very disrespectful wording, and still in my opinion "trash talk" , although based on your former arguements it definately felt like you were referring to "people".
 
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Hey, ladies, I am going to go ahead and lock this thread since it's so off topic, but feel free to create spin off threads (or to PM other members you are conversing with in this thread) as appropriate.
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