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Re: Drafting a letter to my MOPs group about Pearls
I know I am just glad that I found out about them about a year ago so I *knew* what it was when people started bringing it up. I have chimed in a few times and been ignored and just kinda dismissed as the weird one out (I am the only one who openly says I won't spank, I am the only one who openly admits I cosleep, Only one who cloth diapers)... they just kinda see me as not knowing what I'm talking about, kwim? I want to be able to show them that I am very well versed on the topic and why I am so concerned about it. If Scripture can't convince them, then that is on their hearts not mine, but I really hope it does help them to see what is going wrong in the picture.
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One in the arms of Jesus 9/18/12 and a second January 2013