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Old 06-25-2019, 05:02 AM   #1
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Default Crossing state lines with a minor

This weekend our Scout troop is driving to our summer camp location in another state. I'm assigned to drive my daughter plus one other girl. It's about a 8 hour drive.

The troop is being casual about driving arrangements. One leader will have all of the forms & such, but if I get pulled over, what do I need to have in my car that gives me permission to have this other girl in the car?
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Interesting. I don't know of anything that I am aware of. I have driven both boy and girl scouts across state lines and didn't have anything in my car (the leader had all paperwork with her/him in that car).

If there is something I am interested to know the procedure.
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Default Re: Crossing state lines with a minor

Honestly, that would not be a worry on my mind at all.
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As long as the leader has the parental consent and emergency contact forms I think legally you are fine but might be a good idea to have a copy of that info yourself since you are in different vehicles and not together as a group in a van
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Default Re: Crossing state lines with a minor

Things must be a lot different in the States. It wouldn't cross my mind to be concerned if we went into Quebec with extra kids or if our kids were with others. The only thing I'd want to make sure they had was their provincial health card. Otherwise …

If we were crossing into the U.S. that would be a completely different thing. It came up with rep hockey and passports (obviously for all) and notarized letters are required for kids / teens travelling without their own parents.

Are there issues crossing into different states?
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Things must be a lot different in the States. It wouldn't cross my mind to be concerned if we went into Quebec with extra kids or if our kids were with others. The only thing I'd want to make sure they had was their provincial health card. Otherwise …

If we were crossing into the U.S. that would be a completely different thing. It came up with rep hockey and passports (obviously for all) and notarized letters are required for kids / teens travelling without their own parents.

Are there issues crossing into different states?
This was my thought. It isn't an international border there aren't stops and it won't be a big deal.

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I would absolutely make sure I had a note written and signed by the parent. I agree with PP about sex trafficking being a concern, and I also would just rather be safe than sorry in general and cover my own butt


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Default Re: Crossing state lines with a minor

Well, here if a parent wants to fly alone with their own child it is best to bring a letter from the other parent stating knowledge and permission. Maybe something similar to ease your mind?

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Here is a sample letter:
https://philalegal.org/html/Sample_l..._to_travel.pdf

You write the names and dates of travel, as well as the addresses of final destinations.


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The only time I have heard of any travel restriction was if the child was in a county/state foster care system which I assume isnt the case here or you would have said.
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I take kids without their parents on field trips all the time for my job. None of the kids look like they could be my biological children. If I have more than one vehicle transporting kids, I make sure the driver has the permission slips for the children riding in their vehicle. I know the liability issues are different with a company sponsored trip vs privately transporting children. If you're really worried, I would ask for a copy of the permission slips from the leader.
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I take kids without their parents on field trips all the time for my job. None of the kids look like they could be my biological children. If I have more than one vehicle transporting kids, I make sure the driver has the permission slips for the children riding in their vehicle. I know the liability issues are different with a company sponsored trip vs privately transporting children. If you're really worried, I would ask for a copy of the permission slips from the leader.
You know what's weird - we don't have permission slips for this trip! We have the health forms, and that's it! The troop leader registered all of us for the camping trip, and we have yet to fill out forms for this camping trip, other than the health forms. And the health forms are not specific to this trip. They are filled out once and kept on file with the troop for as long as we are in the troop!

I am going to make my own permission slip to be signed by the parents of the girls I am taking, and also have a copy of the health forms and insurance cards in case of an emergency.
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I am going to make my own permission slip to be signed by the parents of the girls I am taking, and also have a copy of the health forms and insurance cards in case of an emergency.
I'd double check that's it's ok to have extra copies of that information made and carried around. If I'd provided the info and expected it to be kept secure and private, I would be livid to know a parent had made copies and was carrying it around. Holding on to the health card if my child wasn't old enough to look after it? Absolutely. Necessary and makes sense. But a parent carrying around an extra copy of my child's private health information with no idea how it was being stored and protected? No.

And with all of the concern here, in particular, about school permission forms etc. being used to vax children without parental consent? Again, I'd sign a permission form provided by an organization I trusted and could review, but not something a parent whipped up and handed me.

For your own protection, I'd just share your concerns with leadership and ask them when forms will be signed and who will carry them. It might save you the headache of trying to come up with all of this yourself. The organization really should be looking after all of this for you.
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