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11-20-2014, 01:44 PM	#31
LovingMummy Seedling Rose Join Date: Nov 2014 Posts: 37	Re: I wish Christians understood this :( Is that your article? __________________ Canadian Mama to my little sweeties: M, 3 A, almost 2 O, born May 2014

11-20-2014, 08:00 PM	#32
SewingGreenMama Rose Trellis Deuteronomy 11:19 Join Date: May 2012 Location: Tennessee Posts: 3,052	Re: I wish Christians understood this :( No it's not. It just applies to my experience. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ "Reflections like these lead one to spare the rod ... purely because it is not easy to find a punishment that does not defeat it's own ends." -Charlotte Mason Parents and Children pg. 171 "If punishment were necessarily reformative, and able to cure us all of those 'sins we have a mind to,' why, the world would be a very good world;" -Charlotte Mason, Parents and Children pg. 172 W&C 8/4/06; G 15yo , M 11yo , S 8/29/13 , V 8yo , Baby 2yo

11-21-2014, 01:00 PM	#33
LovingMummy Seedling Rose Join Date: Nov 2014 Posts: 37	Re: I wish Christians understood this :( Ok. Sorry to hear that. __________________ Canadian Mama to my little sweeties: M, 3 A, almost 2 O, born May 2014

11-22-2014, 11:51 PM

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Re: I wish Christians understood this :(

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11-23-2014, 02:12 PM

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Re: I wish Christians understood this :(

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Originally Posted by tessiemae

How can a child who is hurt by his dad believe in and know an all-loving heavenly Father?

peace,
tessiemae

Yes!

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