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02-12-2009, 02:45 PM | #16 | |
Rose Garden
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
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Maybe they are talking about the parenting class they are having now. It's based on the book Parenting Is A Ministry by Craig Castor. http://www. parentingministry.org/ I read some of it and it's very pro-spanking.. So I don't know if that is it or not.. I really do need to ask. Okay, I just skimmed through the workbook on this class, and yes, it is from this class. |
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02-12-2009, 02:49 PM | #17 |
Rose Bouquet
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
oh man...that totally blows...ick. i'm so sorry! i hope there's maybe a good gentle way you can break it to them that that isn't at all biblical to present emotionless parenting! hey...at least we know the truth, eh?? i seem to remember someone else here on the board asking about that very curriculum your fellowship is starting. weird that they would do this one after L&L. because Faye/Kline are very anti-spanking. huh... :/
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02-12-2009, 02:55 PM | #18 |
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
Apparently the pastor had nothing to do with it. He hasn't even read the book. I talked to him about it and he said to talk to the guy who was leading the class. I haven't done it yet b/c I've been working in the nursery on the nights the class is going. Apparently the author of the book is going to be there to speak one night. I'd love to pick his brain.. Maybe I should pass out some GBD articles then and see what happens.. teehee
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02-12-2009, 03:31 PM | #19 |
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
Ya, that's not Love and Logic. I'm quite complelled to it. Especially the books regarding schools and discipline with troubled kids.
Nothing I've read ever is about being emotion-less........rather to seek to understand the child and strive to build them up.
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02-17-2009, 08:25 AM | #20 |
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
I have a very expressive face, for better or for worse. My parents though were of the stuff your emotions mindset. It's been hard for me to figure out how to handle my emotions, I'm getting better at it though. Now my boys will say I'm angry/scared/mad. I couldn't do that at age 3-4 yr.
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02-17-2009, 08:36 AM | #21 | |
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02-18-2009, 05:23 PM | #22 |
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
Those are some really good thoughts, Deanna!
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02-18-2009, 05:47 PM | #23 | ||
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02-18-2009, 06:08 PM | #24 |
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Re: Not showing any emotion on your face?
Those are some good thoughts Deanna. My FIL is rather grumpy & abrupt sounding most of the time(okay, all the time), so C has a hard time figuring out if he is joking or not. I wink at C to let him know 'grandpa is just being silly'. I do the same when I'm being silly. I might have a mad look, saying something that sounds mean, but a wink tells him I'm joking.
Not sure if that is relavent.. I'm tired & busy and not thinking straight right now.. |
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