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Old 09-07-2013, 06:19 PM   #1
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I know there's been a million threads about stuff like this, but a friend (a nonposting member here! ) goes to a church that has recently taken Growing Kids God's Way out of their recommended curriculum. They're looking for a parenting curriculum or book to offer, and were looking into Love and Logic but are open to other suggestions as well.

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Old 09-07-2013, 06:25 PM   #2
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Families where grace is in place, or grace based living by crystal? I think Danny silk has some good stuff too and is a Christian.
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Old 09-07-2013, 06:25 PM   #3
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Ooh, just remembered the Celebrate Calm stuff too.
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Old 09-08-2013, 03:20 PM   #4
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Connected Families stuff looks good. I want my church to do it. Study guides are free online so you can look at the stuff. They don't focus on what not to do, but instead focus on building relationships, connecting and understanding the why of behavior.

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I second Families Where Grace is in Place - very good, but I don't know of study guides? Maybe they don't need them.
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I think there's an updated version of families where grace is in place that includes a study guide. I'd do a search on amazon.
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Look at stuff by turansky & Miller. Fwgiip is not really a "how to" book which is a weakness when doing a parenting class.

Love and logic isn't horrible and had some good tools, and it is applicable to both punitive and permissive families and is very practical. I can see why a church would want to do it.

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Turansky and Miller stuff is great. Dh and I attended one of their seminars at a local church. They teach positive discipline, from a biblical framework, and they make it really practical.
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Thanks for that, Punkie. I either haven't seen/heard that from them or didn't remember it. What I like about them is their ability to reach all kinds of parents with simple practical, positive tools.
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