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Old 02-24-2012, 12:19 PM   #16
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Through my daughter's eyes...
 
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thank you for sharing!
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Old 02-24-2012, 12:29 PM   #17
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Thank you for sharing your heart. It always blesses me.
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Old 02-24-2012, 03:31 PM   #18
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I can also relate
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What a miracle - and what humbling Grace - that you were able to accept the true love of God after all the wrongs done to you in His name.

Your story is inspiring, Reb, and I'm thankful that you feel compelled to shine light into that darkness.
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That was a wonderfully written article. Your son is so blessed to call you Mommy.
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Very touching. Thank you for sharing.
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I am sorry.
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Your son is so, incredibly lucky.
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Thanks, Reb.
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