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05-17-2011, 05:57 AM | #16 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
gpsings, I think it's kind of cool that you feel so icky after reading bits of the book. Back when I first read them I hadn't heard about GCM or GBD so I didn't think anything of it. It would be fascinating to read it again from a different perspective. Isn't it amazing how perspectives change when you've been enlightened?
mathmaticalessymamma, so true! I still need: the quote from p. 125-130 of The New Strong Willed Child, the article that recommends hitting a toddler who hits or the toddler's "hitting will persist or even escalate”.
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05-17-2011, 09:31 AM | #17 | |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
I have it handy and will look
---------- Post added at 12:10 PM ---------- Previous post was at 12:06 PM ---------- Its on p 127 under argument 2 ---------- Post added at 12:31 PM ---------- Previous post was at 12:10 PM ---------- Ugh. Quote:
There's sooo much wrong with this. It needs addressed.
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05-17-2011, 09:36 AM | #18 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
Blog away, my friend!
I'm writing a parenting book called A Parenting Manual for the Imperfect. I'm planning on uploading it to Kindle in a week or two. I'll have hard copies published in a few months and would be happy to send it to you all since you've been so helpful.
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05-17-2011, 09:39 AM | #19 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
Thank you!
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05-17-2011, 09:41 AM | #20 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
NOTE TO SELF: Get a kindle.
Yeah, flipping through excerpts from the book is a skin crawling feeling now. I can remember reading it before and thinking, oh yeah, that makes so much sense! But now, it makes me want to cry. How misleading that charming man can be! |
05-17-2011, 11:01 AM | #21 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
Yes, exactly. I thought he was pretty smart, but now I just think the man is an idiot! Getting into a snarling fight with a dog, waiting to go in to his infant while she is getting her breath b/w cries so she won't learn that they respond to crying? I used to respect him before actually having children.
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05-17-2011, 11:07 AM | #22 |
Rose Bouquet
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
Yuck...
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05-17-2011, 12:02 PM | #23 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
you can download a free kindle reader for the computer...
Can't wait!
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05-17-2011, 12:23 PM | #24 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
just now got it. Thanks for the tip! Still want a kindle, though.
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05-17-2011, 03:58 PM | #25 | |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
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05-24-2011, 06:36 AM | #26 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
I have both books in the bookshelf if you need more help. My mother was a BIG Dobson fan
I keep them for reference and because they aren't quite bad enough to burn them (did that with Ezzo, Pearl and Tripp, ftr) but I definitely don't want to donate them and let someone else get hold of them. So, there they sit 12 years later. |
05-24-2011, 06:41 AM | #27 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
Thanks TTL. I'm good for now.
Dobson was pretty big in our house growing up too.
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05-24-2011, 02:54 PM | #28 |
Rose Trellis
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
I don't have either book, but wanted to wish you all the best on your book. We need more writers like you!
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05-24-2011, 03:17 PM | #29 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
blushing . Thanks
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05-25-2011, 10:46 PM | #30 |
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Re: Do u own The New Strong Willed Childor Dare to Discipline and want to do me a fav
Did you get what you were looking for?
I'm 99% sure the thing with him beating the dog about staying in the dog bed and comparing it (without really spelling it out) to how you have to beat down a child to show who is boss is in Strong Willed Child, since that's the only one I've read thoroughly. I think that's the one with the intentionally extremely painful shoulder pinch advice too. |
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