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08-31-2018, 07:52 AM | #1 |
Rose Bouquet
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Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
I'm very strongly leaning toward taking my ds out of public school and homeschooling again. He really wanted to try school, but it hasn't been going well.
He has been very inattentive in class and cannot complete the work on time. Also, he's miserable. The one question holding me back is how to make it work with my 2 yo. She is extremely insistent on being in the center of everything and melts down if she does not have my attention. Ds cannot concentrate with her trying to get my attention. If I put out activities for her ds also gets distracted by them. He also really doesn't work independently - that's a big part of the problem he's having in school. So I'm just trying to figure out how it would work. Last year we did most of the "schooly" part of school during her nap, but she's not napping as much and I think I need more time for academic subjects.
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08-31-2018, 08:02 AM | #2 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
What tends to work best for kids that age is to try and make them feel a part of the action. if you are working at the table with your son toddler can go in a high chair up at the table with you but with her own things that come out during that time. snacks, paint with water coloring books special toys like a magna doodle travel sized board etc. if toddler naps can also use that time to work one on one. You can get creative and sit outside with son while toddlerplays out there
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08-31-2018, 08:23 AM | #3 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
Is there a mother's helper or anyone who could watch her for you so that you can give your ds undivided attention for the time you do school?
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08-31-2018, 08:24 AM | #4 |
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
Evenings and weekends when dh is home?
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08-31-2018, 09:05 AM | #5 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
All of the above?
---------- Post added at 04:05 PM ---------- Previous post was at 03:51 PM ---------- https://www.1plus1plus1equals1.net/2...-12-18-months/ Some good ideas and printouts on this page!
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08-31-2018, 01:04 PM | #6 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
Also, here's a link to a homeschool educator's handout (from a conference) about students working independently and how to get there during the later elementary years. It's totally ok for your DS to need your attention focused on him to learn right now, especially with all that he has going on. Jumping ahead to the "Assign and Check Parent" leads to learning gaps when it's done too early IME.
https://welltrainedmind.com/a/teachi...independently/ (It's a really great outline of progressively moving older students toward taking charge of their education, starting in 4th-5th grade and culminating in high school) Levels of Supervision: Parent at Elbow (PEW) Hovering Parent (HOP) Assign and Check Parent (ACP) Start and End of Day Parent, On Call (SEDPOC) Start and End of Week Parent, On Call (SEWPON) Tuition Paying Parent (TPP) Last edited by Katigre; 08-31-2018 at 01:07 PM. |
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09-01-2018, 07:21 AM | #7 |
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
Mother's Day Out program or preschool?
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09-01-2018, 09:58 AM | #8 | |
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
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09-01-2018, 11:01 AM | #9 |
Rose Bouquet
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
I may have more questions or want to hash out some more detailed scenarios with y'all later. For now I just wanted to say thanks for all the ideas!
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09-01-2018, 11:26 AM | #10 | |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
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09-01-2018, 01:10 PM | #11 | |
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
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Momma to my 29 weeker Early Bird who is thirteen and my little Wiggle Worm born 33 weeks who is nine. How do I have a teenager?! I don't feel ready for this. |
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09-05-2018, 09:51 PM | #12 |
Rose Garden
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Re: Homeschooling a child with special needs with a toddler interfering
Katigre, that is amazing. I love her outline and mya listen to the audio just to be inspired. For sn kiddos I’m guessing there will be a large delay in that schedule might be needed.
You didn’t say the age of your son. Is he a typical boy aka neurotypical? Is there adhd or is he bored or overwhelmed in school? I’d be looking for a cause for the inattentiveness whether you bring him home or not!! If he’s bored, you can challenge. If he’s overwhelmed, you can pinpoint either a deficit or disability, etc
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