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03-23-2010, 02:35 PM | #16 | |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
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Re: Tying Heart Strings
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03-23-2010, 03:29 PM | #17 | |
Climbing Rose
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Washington State
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Re: Tying Heart Strings
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I know, at least, with my DD's (who I don't parent perfectly!), they know how much they mean to me without me trying to constantly do/say things to "confirm" this for them. While I do show a lot of affection and say I love you, they just know this at the core of themselves- and the fundamental truth that they are loved by me and by God *no matter what* is an amazing gift. It's taken me many, many adult years to get to get away from my distorted views of God, and one of the best thing is knowing that I'm giving my children a much more accurate picture of God in the first place!
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03-23-2010, 03:35 PM | #18 |
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Re: Tying Heart Strings
TempestJewel, that was wonderfully said. It explains why I just didn't get it. Thank you for putting it into words.
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03-23-2010, 03:36 PM | #19 |
Rose Garden
Join Date: Mar 2005
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Re: Tying Heart Strings
Rather, poison with a little bit of soup in it.
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03-24-2010, 02:18 AM | #20 | |
Rose Trellis
Join Date: Feb 2007
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Re: Tying Heart Strings
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There is tying heart strings that is positive--building up a foundation of love & trust. And then there is tying heart strings that is, as Linda says, manipulating children through fear & thought control. One of the problems with false teachings is that they are so often disguised with language that sounds like it is saying one thing, but is actually meaning something altogether different..... |
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