Rebuttals to the "modern-day parenting is in crisis" HuffPo article...

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07-15-2014, 09:04 AM	#1
Hannah Elise Rose Trellis Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 2,124	Rebuttals to the "modern-day parenting is in crisis" HuffPo article... Mods, please move if this isn't the right place.. but I thought that since it was a specific situation/article, it belonged here rather than the Gentle Discipline forum. I'm sure many of you have seen the HuffPo article recently circulating around social media that supposedly details why modrn-day parenting is in crisis - you know, the one written by a British nanny? When I read it, it didn't sit well with me... so I went looking for "gentle" rebuttals to share with my friends when they inevitably shared the article. I thought maybe I would post them here so that others would haven a resource to do the same. Please feel free to add others you are aware of, too. I know I found at least one other when I first searched, but I didn't save it and now I'm not sure where it was. 5 (Alternative) Reasons Modern-Day Parenting Is in Crisis http://www.jennifermcgrail.com/2014/...-is-in-crisis/ And this one actually breaks down both the original AND Jennifer's points from the above link, and comes at it from more of a religious perspective.. Modern Day Parenting is in Crisis, Because Nanny Is Enforcing Unhealthy Parenting Styles! http://thehomespunlife.com/modern-da...enting-styles/ __________________ Hannah Elise: GAPS mama, novice gardener, libertarian, INTP and procrastinator extraordinaire Wife to Spencer (5.29.10), momma to Asher (3.19.11), Benjamin (12.30.12), and Elisabeth (1.9.15)

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