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Old 02-21-2009, 08:56 AM   #16
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Default Re: Just need some encouragement, sort of a vent, under some pressure from friends

BTW: As a former sp ed teacher who specialized in autistic spectrum I can say for *some* *families* there are *some* *good* reasons to put special needs kids in school - but socialization? You've got to be kidding me.
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Old 02-21-2009, 10:51 AM   #17
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I doubt doubt there are good reason, such a speech therapy ( we may go only for speech and then leave if we have to). The idea of socialialization and learning through mimicking other autistic students seems absurd to me honestly!
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Old 02-21-2009, 01:15 PM   #18
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Just wanted to give ! ALL of my IRL friends are punitive (ezzo/pearl). You're doing the right thing
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