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02-18-2011, 09:55 AM | #76 | |
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RC Sproul Jr. (I don't think his father is, but Jr. definitely is and Jr. was defrocked several years ago too by his Presbytery) Doug Wilson - Promotes the Multigenerational Faithfulness ideas Doug Phillips (of course - he's in charge of VF) Geoffrey and Victoria Botkin - Very high up in VF Elizabeth and Anna Sofia Botkin (Geoff and Victoria's daughters) Scott Brown - involved with the NCFIC, you can read his blog posts on their website, he was rebuked at Trinity Baptist Church in NC for abuse of spiritual authority in July of 2006 Philip Lancaster - Wrote Family Man, Family Leader which is promoted heavily on VF's website (and was published by them as well) Jennie Chancey - promotes VF on her blog Voddie Baucham - speaks at VF events and in their videos Jasmine Baucham (Voddie's daughter) James and Stacy McDonald (used to own Homeschooling Today magazine) The Duggars (affiliated with both VF and Gothard) Bill Gothard - there are quite a few overlaps between his followers and VF followers and they get funding from the same people Michael Farris - Founded both the HSLDA and Patrick Henry College Charles Provan - wrote The Bible and Birth Control which is used to validate the Quiverful doctrine by VF - this is Provan's only connection to VF as far as I know Gary Bauer - Dominionist Jonathan Lindvall - teaches that even a child's thoughts and feelings should be under submission to their father Nancy Campbell - founder of Above Rubies magazine, has her books published through VF Peter Bradrick - used to be the executive assistant to Doug Phillips, now is the operations manager for the NCFIC (see below) Organizations, websites, and blogs - names, NOT links: Visionary Womanhood - blog Ladies Against Feminism - blog National Center for Family Integrated Churches (NCFIC) - organization founded by Doug Phillips to further his ideals of "Biblical Patriarchy" in churches Constitution Party - political party HSLDA Patrick Henry College (given $ by the same people who give Gothard, VF, and HSLDA $) The Homeschool Leadership Summit (2009) Hobby Lobby - crafting store which is affiliated with Gothard (TestifyToLove found this out a couple months ago). Above Rubies - Promotes VF ideals such as Quiverful and women's "true" Godly calling being that of staying at home and raising children and being a help-meet to their husbands Ideas/doctrine: Multigenerational Faithfulness Stay at home Daughters - it is a sin for daughters to not be under their father or brother's headship at all times - no college, no living on their own Patriocentricity (they call it "Biblical Patriarchy") - the wife and children exist to glorify God through facilitating the husband/father's "vision" in whatever way the patriarch wants them to. Quiverful - the use of any sort of BC to space or limit children is sinful and a sign of a lack of faith Transfer of Authority - When ownership of a daughter passes from her father to her new husband Covenental Homeschooling - not educating your own children at home is a sin Isolating children from the sinful world - part of the reason for homeschooling Dominionism - the idea that Christians should control secular government through political action Vision Forum also pays homage to several racist folks who are no longer alive such as Robert Louis Dabney and RJ Rushdoony. Many homeschooling conferences are affiliated with VF now - I don't know which ones, but VF and their affiliates were instrumental in banning certain curricula from the big homeschooling conferences. Sonlight is one of the curricula that was banned from several conferences and if you google "Sonlight banned" you'll find more information about this. To sum up: VF has their fingers in many pies and their influence is creeping more mainstream all the time, from what I (and others) have noticed. I've had several friends get heavily involved in the heresies which VF promotes. It's so important to be vigilant with this issue! None of us here are any better or smarter than those who have become heavily entrenched in these beliefs. I can tell you that my friends who got involved in this stuff were very smart people, strong believers I'm sure there are many more people associated with VF than I know of. Be vigilant and aware! I'm not one to throw the "c" word around much, but I do, with completely certainty, believe that Vision Forum is a cult. VF's beliefs are extra-Biblical in origin, they call for isolation - especially of girls and young women who often receive sub-high school education as well since their purpose is to grow up and have babies and who aren't allowed to leave the home until they are married - and people are ostracized when they reject the teachings. Fathers are given all the power and women and children are marginalized which sets up a potentially abusive environment
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02-18-2011, 09:58 AM | #77 |
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Re: Talk to me about Vision Forum
Please do send a letter.
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02-18-2011, 10:03 AM | #78 |
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Oh no, I'm quite disturbed that Hobby Lobby is affilitated with Vision Forum! I LOVE that store! We get lots of stuff that the kids use for their 4-H and scouting projects there, as well as decorative things for our home. I absolutely cannot shop there anymore if they have an affiliation with Vision Forum, and I will be writing to let them know why they will no longer have my business.
Does anyone know exactly what their link with Vision Forum is?
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02-18-2011, 10:08 AM | #79 |
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Re: Talk to me about Vision Forum
TTL knows more about the Hobby Lobby stuff than I do.
This article (thejournal.org/issues/issue64/swan.html) is probably a good starting place for how Hobby Lobby is associated with Gothard's IBLP (which is associated with VF), but I'll PM TTL and maybe she can come here and explain more.
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02-18-2011, 10:28 AM | #80 |
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Re: Talk to me about Vision Forum
Here are some more names which I believe to be involved: Bob Jones Jr., Gary Bauer, Jonathan Lindvall, Mary Pride, ATI, Basic Life Principles.
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02-18-2011, 11:40 AM | #81 | |
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Hobby Lobby purchases real estate, develops it and either donates or sells at cost despite the effort of development it to Bill Gothard for his purposes.
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If you google, you can find reference to properties in several areas which Hobby Lobby has bought and then sold at cost to Gotthard (after spending Hobby Lobby money to renovate and develop it to whatever Gothard wants it to be). There are several properties in Nashville in the last several years, and a property was just provided to Gothard this last fall, iirc. Hobby Lobby also officially and formally supports Oral Roberts University, which is dominionist. Quite a few of their charity affiliations are Dominionist, but there is a direct connect between Hobby Lobby and Bill Gothard that they don't file under charity work for whatever reason they do so. Just an FYI though, the Duggars no longer use ATI materials. They now use SOS from Alpha Omega Publishers. I'm not sure if they changed their opinion on Gothard, though they have been seen promoting Gothard less and VF more in the last couple of years. They still have strong ties and friendships within ATI, so the transition may have been an issue of practicality simply because the older girls can more adequately supervise education if all of the younger children are moved onto computer based schooling, which is what SOS is. VF is creepy and scary. The work they are doing to destroy the spirit and individual souls of girls is just sickening to me. Its unbiblical, and they coach it in nonsense straw man arguments so you are too busy thinking how "pretty" and "idyllic" it looks to actually THINK about what they are saying and the full implications of it. VF and Dominionist roles in this new Stay at Home Daughter's movement, the purity movement and how they are now trying to control girls is sadistic and abusive. It is absolutely the stepping stone into deep psychological and sexual abuse and no one seems to be willing to run screaming that the emporer is NAKED here...except ironically Micheal Pearl who is EXTREMELY harsh on his opinion of this nightmare that is coming. |
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02-18-2011, 11:41 AM | #82 |
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Re: Talk to me about Vision Forum
I'll add those to my post so it can be as comprehensive as possible.
I forgot to add Dominionism as one of their beliefs/doctrines also That's a big one too!
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02-18-2011, 11:57 AM | #83 | |
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Re: Talk to me about Vision Forum
I am almost certain that Bob Jones Jr. is not associated. I went to college at BJU when Dr. Bob Jr. was still alive, and his and the school's teachings are directly opposed to many of the things VF teaches. BJU is a university that heavily recruits from the homeschool community--why would they support an organization that teaches college is basically evil? They actively teach that adult (college-age) children should follow God rather than their parents when they feel that God is leading them to do something with which their parents disagree. Bob Jones Jr. could rightly be called fundamentalist and possibly separatist, but to my knowledge he is not and never has been part of the patriarchy movement.
Mary Pride has also recently come out publicly speaking against patriarchy. www. home-school.com/Articles/phs89-marypride.html Mary says, Quote:
Some of the others listed are involved in the conservative homeschool movement but may not be directly connected with VF. I think if we are going to make a list it would be good to include facts and evidence of exactly how these people are connected with VF.
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02-18-2011, 12:22 PM | #85 | |
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We are 'QF'. In that we don't use any prevention at all. We let babies come as God sees fit. We don't follow anything else that many people would say fits the 'QF' mold. In fact, my hubby LOATHES that label. I was glad when Mary Pride wrote that article. The two are not synonymous. And that's ok! For some the two are tied together, but it sure doesn't have to be. Last edited by blessedmamaofmany; 02-18-2011 at 12:27 PM. |
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02-18-2011, 12:25 PM | #86 |
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I am so sad to hear of Hobby Lobby's connection with Gothard. We get a lot of craft things there.
I am finding the aspect of men getting physical attention from their daughters to be really really creepy.
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02-18-2011, 12:26 PM | #87 |
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uh yeah. Major ick.
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02-18-2011, 12:28 PM | #88 |
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IMO, the Quiverfull Movement is tied inextricably with Patriarchy but individuals who use the term QF to describe themselves aren't necessarily patriarchal. It's getting to the point though that those people who simply don't limit family size but don't have any of the other trappings of the movement will need to find a different term to describe themselves because really when I hear QF I immediately connect it to VF and their ilk.
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What's a bummer, is being a weirdo and being "QF"..often when you look for other who are like minded, VF and those like that are often all you can find. Hmm...a new term? I like 'weirdo' myself. I'm cool with that. Last edited by blessedmamaofmany; 02-18-2011 at 12:34 PM. |
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