thanks TulipMama,
I know they all love their kids, and everyone wants the best for them. Its just terribly sad
I think its so emotional for me right now because they are the pastor, they have such an influence over others. and he preaches Grace and Gods love and all that... I honestly thought, they must be GBD, even if they dont know it
and after thinking about it some, you know, she has been an encouragement to me. she has cared for me and loved me and never ever ever been judgemental to me about anything. I have never felt so cared for by anyone in the church, except one. So, Im going to hang on to that, see that she does love her children, and not focus on the Pearl thing. Assigning positive intent